World of Sexual Pleasures

Take It Off, Take It ALL Off…..

Posted on June 2, 2014 by Sharon

Where is the real pleasure in a strip club? Many men love to ogle the ladies parading around and badly want to fuck and touch them, but a strip club is supposed to be look, but do not touch. Of course there are back rooms where there likely is turning tricks going on, and you can’t blame them, it’s all cash under the table and the guys are turned on after watching the girls shimmy and shake and gyrate around. I’d imagine after a lap dance or two, some may have even cum in their pants without any actual rubbing of their cock.

It seems torture in a way to tease yourself with something you will never get to have or touch. Not many are playing around with the clients, unless for money in the back rooms. Yet guys do enjoy watching ladies dance around naked and doing all kinds of naughty moves. Most of the strippers have great bodies, and their wives or girlfriends simply cannot compare to a body like that. In all likelihood the only way they get a girl that looks like that would be to pay them.

Porn has its place, but the live entertainment value of a real dancing and naked girl that you can pay for a lap dance, well I’d think that trumps porn anytime and that’s why strip clubs are still so popular. It’s not the blaring music or overpriced drinks that keeps them coming back, it’s the girls. Most strip clubs also have dancers coming in from different cities all the time as well, so it’s not the same ones over and over, the guys know they will get variety and different girls regularly. Not something they can say about the one gal, if any, they may have at home waiting for them.

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Bend Over And Take Your Punishment!

Posted on May 26, 2014 by Sharon

Spanking is a pleasure for many men. Odd, you’d think a punishment couldn’t really be a pleasure, but many are in fact in love with being spanked. I wonder how many mothers out there would be as freewheeling with the spanking if they had any idea that they were in many instances bringing a lifelong fetish to life. I do not think it is a bad thing to spank a child within reason, I was spanked and it never damaged me in any way, but for males, it seems to take a different turn.

I’m thinking it’s often because men were spanked by their mothers rather than fathers and this happens at a time of sexual awakening and forever the two are intertwined. Perhaps if it was daddy doling out the swats the fetish around spanking wouldn’t be anywhere near the popular one it is. Men are just different. I’d estimate there’s equal amounts of girls getting spanked, yet they don’t grow up with it as a sexualized fetish for the most part. Some would sure, but not anywhere near like men do.

Hands, soaked in water wooden spoons, paddles, all kinds of things guys go for. It seems so childish to me, yet it’s a very popular fetish and pleasure. Harmless enough, as they are consenting, even though some literally want to be hit to the point of welts coming up and red skin. I often wonder how their mom’s would react if they had any idea their grown son’s were calling sex lines and talking about being spanked decades after the fact and how they masturbate thinking about it. Men are indeed different in their fantasies and pleasures.

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Lemme Watch

Posted on May 19, 2014 by Sharon

Most men are so visual, one of their greatest pleasures is web cam sex. On my personal time that I spend in chat rooms for fun, a real issue seems to be “cam bombs”. Now what do you ask is a “cam bomb”? Unasked for dick in the face via a chat box. They have opened their cam and are stroking away thinking you want to see them rub one out, that this is the best thing you could possibly be watching, even though you didn’t ask for it and certainly didn’t want it.

I guess some women must find it arousing somewhere, but many of us, nope. If we did there would be just as many cam boys as cam girls and we all know there are not, we’ve plenty of guys willing to flash for us and perform for us for free at anytime. I’d say I get a minimum of 6 offers a day to watch some guy shake his junk on cam for me, and of course, they’d love to watch me at any time. Well, it’s simply not an interest, so it’s not going to be happening, but thankfully guys have more than enough cam girls peddling their wares for them to watch for their very own little custom porno.

The term “Peeping Tom” is a man watching, you don’t have a female equivalent of that term. Not that women don’t take a peek ever, or that 100% don’t like to watch, but as a rule, it’s a male pleasure. Most porn is made for men’s enjoyment, not women’s, again, that’s not to say all ladies don’t like porn, some do, but not to the degree of males.

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Sweet Dreams

Posted on May 12, 2014 by Sharon

People usually think of wet dreams as something just for men, but ladies indeed can get wet dreams and even orgasm while sleeping and while waking. It’s actually a wonderful feeling that we’d all like to experience more! It can seem so real and you wake up right while you are having an orgasm. They seem to be more common for men that are not cumming enough during their waking hours, so the body is giving them the release they need without them doing it to themselves.

So if you’re horny and not even masturbating, the body will likely get the job done for you in this nocturnal emission. I’ve wakened up and been having an orgasm without even touching myself and usually squeeze my thighs together as it seems to prolong the feeling a bit and make it more enjoyable. If only every waking could be as enjoyable! Sex and dreams and imagination and fantasy is such a big part of our lives and still such a great mystery to many of us. If masturbation wasn’t thought of as bad by some people, mainly religious ones, people wouldn’t be depriving themselves during waking hours. Some are just of a high sex drive nature and will have wet dreams regardless of how much they are getting in real life, yet of course deprivation leads to more of them.

Sleep and dreams can be wonderful, mysterious things and enjoyable parts of our lives. When we have a fantastic, sexy dream about someone we desire that we may not be having real luck with in real life, we wish we could go back to sleep and get back to all the good parts we want to relive over and over again.

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Once Again It’s National Masturbation Month!

Posted on May 5, 2014 by Sharon

We all love to rub one out, you wouldn’t be on a naughty site like this that details sexual pleasures if you weren’t a masturbator too! Now we have entered an entire month dedicated to celebrating the simple, free pleasure of masturbation. Our making love to ourselves, the most important person in our lives. It really is sex with someone you love. It’s fantastic cardio vascular exercise, actually lowers the risk of prostate cancer in men, 21 minimum orgasms a month for optimum prostate health!

Keeping the pipes clean so to speak. Even if you’re a guy that only bothers with a 5 minute quickie in the shower, masturbation is something many people enjoy even if they have a regular sexual partner. Many partners do not share the same sex drive, so one of them may be in want much of the time. Yes, they can seek satisfaction outside of the relationship, but many are not comfortable doing that and masturbation is an excellent outlet for ones in such cases. I don’t understand anyone not getting on the masturbation bandwagon. It’s safe, no chance of disease, a mild form of exercise, total stress reliever, it has soooo much going for it!

In 1995, a San Francisco sex toy store started the tradition and it’s been gathering steam with each passing year, now even having masturbation marathons in several cities world wide! Now as much as I love to masturbate, and lord knows I do, I don’t see myself signing up for any public spectacles! I’ll keep my masturbation behind closed doors. To play on the phone is one thing, many are also into cam, but to be in some sort of organized event, nah, I’ll leave that to the exhibitionists, and there’s a lot of them around!