Hand Job Heaven

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Many guys do love the basic hand job. They’ve been tugging on their own cocks for a lifetime, now to lay back and let someone else do the tugging for a change. It’s usually the very first thing after kissing that a guy will experience from a girl sexually speaking, the hand is the first thing they will usually feel, before a mouth or a pussy.

Some do love it more than anything else it seems. A hand after all can grip a lot harder than any pussy can, you can make different sensations depending on your grip and stroke and pace. If a girl isn’t in the mood to fuck, or even feeling charitable enough for a blow job, it’s not that big of a deal to give a guy a hand job, doesn’t take much effort at all, really. I well recall a call I did right after I started doing calls and it was a hard call, one of the most repetitious ones I have ever done. For 20 solid minutes, all this guy wanted was talk of a hand job, not one other thing, just that. So it was basically “stroke it” hundreds of times, I thought I’d go mental, but he seemed pleased with the ultra repetitious call. Surprisingly some do like that over and over of the same few sentences even though it’s like Chinese water torture for the ones doing it!

I have heard of some guys that do not like blow jobs, they simply cannot cum from them, but a hand job, they can. Some sadly are so used to their own touch that another person can’t make them cum though and once a guy told me that a girl was giving him a hand job and he had to take over to finish, as he just couldn’t cum from her touch. Must have made her feel not great…

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Valentine’s Day Phone Sex And Masturbation

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Not all of us are lucky enough to have a sexual partner or life partner, spouse, girlfriend, what have you. And wouldn’t you know, this week is Valentine’s Day again. So what’s a lonely guy to do that would like a bit of love and affection on this day of the year? Well he can call and get some phone sex! Even plenty of guys in relationships have a cold woman that has shut down sexually and they won’t get anything from her in the way of love or affection.

Whether it’s a 10 minute call, or an hour long call for a bit of pillow talk after you cum, calling a phone sex operator for some fun is a much more enjoyable way to masturbate than alone. It’s always nice to share your orgasm with someone and cum for them and have them talk to you. Even ones that don’t wish to do a lot of talking can just lay back and allow the phone sex operator of their choice to entertain them as they stroke their cock and have a nice orgasm. What could be a safer thing to do? It’s a lot safer than hiring an escort, it’s a lot cheaper than taking a girl out on a date you may not get lucky with anyway.

It’s a guaranteed orgasm, unless you’re too drunk to cum, or have orgasm issues! Phone sex is a fun, little treat for yourself that will in many cases be the highlight of your day. I’ve got one client that says I’m the highlight of his week, his calls to me. He’s a lonely soul, and I know there’s many in the same boat. So if you haven’t tried it before, give a call to the operator of your choice and see if you don’t have a lot more fun masturbating than doing it alone this Valentine’s Day!

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Pucker Up, Baby!

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An unequaled pleasure that usually begins the evening of passionate lovemaking is kissing. So simple, something people don’t mind even if their kids are doing it. So innocent. It used to be “Do you kiss on a first date?”, now it’s do you fuck on a first date…I think we’d be better off if people did stop at the kiss for the first date and let things build, where’s the build up if everything is already laid out on the table at the end of the first date? What’s left to look forward to, gee does she do anal on the second???

It was a simpler time, a more innocent time than we have today, with porn splashed all over the internet for everyone old enough to click a computer keyboard to see. A kiss in and of itself was something to look forward to and savor, not to be rushed over to get to “the good stuff”. It WAS the good stuff, for a while anyway until things got more serious. Some people are just not well practiced at it and don’t understand the true art of what goes into a perfect kiss.

I’ve always noticed some actors always looked so good at it and others just didn’t seem natural at it, makes you wonder if they just had bad teachers at it, or if they’d be bad no matter who they were paired up with. Who’s to say a “perfect kiss” has to be on the mouth anyway? *Blush*, there’s certainly other spots a kiss is most welcome, isn’t there now?

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Let’s Tie That Sucker Up!

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As pleasures go, it seems odd to include something that is in fact painful, but to some pain is indeed pleasure. Ones into BDSM and cock and ball torture do love to be in fact hurt and tortured. Many that call are into mild forms of this, say tightly tying up their cock and balls to restrict blood flow to the cock and balls. It gives them harder erections, this is what cock rings do as well. They trap blood to keep the penis engorged longer and harder than it would be otherwise.

Cock rings are the oldest sex toy on earth, ones in ancient times used leather strips and cords to do it. Not all guys are going to have a raging erection like an 18 year old forever, as you get older you need help, and even with help, a 65 yr old, cock ring or not won’t be sporting a woody like a teenager. Sad to say, but that’s the way it is.

I can think of many clients that call with things tied around their bits. Many would leave it tied until just the exact minute of orgasm and then untie it so they would spurt as completely as they could. They say it makes them cum a lot harder to do that, so there’s a much greater release that way. I don’t think women get any benefits to tying up our parts this way, but at least we know why some of the guys do, to intensify it.

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Circle Jerks

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A pleasure for some naughty boys when they are younger, and even when older, as there are some groups that meet for these is a circle jerk. A few guys will meet and masturbate together, usually while watching porn. Honestly, if there’s one thing I like about men it’s their upfrontness when it comes to masturbation. None of this lying and denying like most girls. Their “Ya know what, ya I play with my dick!” attitude is refreshing to me.

I can think the whole time I grew up being terrified of getting caught, or having anyone know. I just don’t think guys are as worried about that, it’s just taken for granted that boys will be boys. It’s too bad girls were not as free to be expected to explore the same. I don’t think many slumber parties have circles of masturbating girls, the same way a group of guys might. On various adult sex forums I’m on I’ve seen posting by men looking for other local men to get together and masturbate with. No touching invited, just to do it in the same room.

I can see it would heighten arousal for both, or however many people might be present and participating. The naughtiness, the rubbing sounds, the heavy breathing, all quite arousing for all involved. Even if you’re not touching them or them touching you, just the proximity of them doing the same thing would be very naughty, yet safe. It’s too bad everyone doesn’t feel that comfortable to enjoy themselves and relax in front of another person. It would sure add a whole new level to your friendships!

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