World of Sexual Pleasures

Look At Me!

Posted on January 13, 2014 by Sharon

A pleasure for some is a shock for ones on the receiving end, exhibitionism. They love to shock and show off to anyone that might be around. Some do this in the form of showing off their genitals, others like to have sex in public places and have people see them in their intimate moments. Sex on a balcony, in a park, in a car not parked far away, places where others can easily walk by and see what they are doing.

One man told me a fantasy of his where he imagined having sex in a park and a woman was walking her dog, the dog got loose and as she’s looking for the dog, she stumbles upon him and his partner going at it and she stops and begins to masturbate as she’s watching them. Of course they see her and invite her to join them and it becomes a threesome right there in the park as who knows who else might then wander on by and see the three of them.

Sex outdoors seems to be of great interest to the British I have noticed. Many that have mentioned this fantasy in one form or another seem to be British. That’s not to say non British people don’t have fantasies about getting it on outdoors and exhibitionism as well, they certainly do, but more of them seem to be British, not sure what it is about British culture that has this so ingrained in the nations psyche. I have indeed noticed it though!

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What Is In A Name?

Posted on January 6, 2014 by Sharon

I just had a conversation with a nice, older Scottish man and like most UK guys, he refers to pussy as “fanny”, which to north Americans of course means the opposite, ass. So many like particular words used in their sexual conversations, it made me think of the various things guys like to refer things as. I have found black guys almost without exception prefer the word dick to cock, not sure why, but several have pointed this out to me, most white guys prefer cock to dick.

Some guys have even odder names for their male appendages, one British client would only have his cock referred to as his “Willie”, if I slipped I was admonished. One client of mine only wants it called his “pickle”. Some want pee pee, which seems so ridiculous to me, one calls it his “little white worm”, as he has a very small cock. Odd how certain words turn us on above all others and get us going. Others that tend to like the medical type stuff like penis, which sounds so clinical to me. Cocks seem to have more word variations than pussies do.

Pussy, cunt, vagina, coochie, not many more. I guess certain words have powers over us and turn us on more than others and they can have roots to way back in our childhood, when first we heard those words and understood their meaning. The actual proper medical terms are not sexy and do not arouse most people that hear them.

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Wet ‘N Wild

Posted on December 30, 2013 by Sharon

What could be more natural for a girl than to have some bath time fun with herself? It’s no mistake that a good percentage of vibrators and other sex toys are now made waterproof, since the manufactures know that people do indeed like to masturbate in the tub and shower.

This is often the place as children where we discover masturbation in the first place. A book from my youth, “Deenie”, by Judy Blume mentions the lead character masturbating in the bath and worrying if it’s normal, or ok to be doing it. So many, most, parents do not bring up the subject with their kids since it’s embarrassing, or they don’t like to think of their children as sexual beings in any way. I cannot even count the number of guys I have talked to that even now, if they have roommates or live at home still, the only place they have real, true privacy, but for very small windows of time and the only place they ever had to masturbate growing up was in the shower.

Premature ejaculation has its roots in this sort of furtive behavior, and it’s a shame ones have life long issues due to lack of privacy situations like this. Women and bath time fun can be with fingers, the ever popular shower massager that gives wonderful clit stimulation when aimed right on it. Younger kids don’t usually have access to sex toys, so the water massager is something they do have access to and can enjoy, but the ever present fear of getting caught is present. Even ones without shower massagers, many get pleasure from letting the water run directly over their clits. I never found it was a strong enough stream of water to get me off, but for many it’s more than enough.

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Cock Cages For Pleasure

Posted on December 23, 2013 by Sharon

What could be pleasurable about being in a chastity device you may ask yourself. Ones into tease and denial see a stronger orgasm at the end of coming out of it. Ones into female domination love to have a woman in control of their orgasms and being in a locked chastity device that they personally do not have the key to is a great aphrodisiac to many that are into surrendering control.

It is fun to allow another control over your orgasm, we have certain levels of how much we each like to give that control over to another. Some don’t like to give in, they like being the dominant ones, others love to be made to beg for release, that’s what gets them off, I love it too, I understand, but I don’t think I’d quite go so far as to let a man lock me up in a chastity belt to prove the point!

Some men call that have supposedly been in lock down for weeks or even months. Of course I have only their word for it and I do think a great deal of embellishment goes into the things they tell me, I never really know for sure if what they say is true or not. If ones send me pictures I can believe partially, but a picture doesn’t tell time, so they could have snapped a pic 5 minutes before and claimed they’ve been locked up for 2-3 months, who knows. There’s many different styles of cock cages, from metal, to steel, to plastic, to leather straps. Just depends what you feel the most comfortable with.

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Great Girdles Of The Past

Posted on December 16, 2013 by Sharon

It’s hard to imagine any guy getting turned on by ugly, restrictive underwear such as that pictured, but I can assure you many do. I have had several callers, usually older ones, that are very into the restrictive corsets and girdles of yesteryear. I can only assume it’s because they are older and caught glimpses of their mothers or grandmother many decades ago wearing such things and found it arousing as it was covering the womanly bits.

Seems it would take a long time to get in and out of such garments and they certainly were not worn for comfort and honestly produced an unnatural shape. One of the longest calls I ever had was with a man into this fetish, his ex wife had quite been into these sorts of old fashioned lingerie and he quite enjoyed having sex with her while she was wearing it. I guess the silky fabrics, hooks and eyes, laces, zippers, to some it just drives them wild. Wonder if they’d have liked the really old fashioned ones made of whale bone and steel cages? It’s unthinkable women would actually truss themselves up like that.

Women today wear Spanx foundation garments, and old fashioned pieces like this while still available are certainly much less in demand as more women decide to just choose comfort over pouring themselves into such contraptions. Much lingerie can be sexy, but these girdles seem so horrible to me, I wouldn’t wear one for anything! Some men even call while wearing them themselves, so it’s not just women they enjoy seeing them on, some have a fetish for them themselves as garments to wear while masturbating.