World of Sexual Pleasures

By the Glow Of Candlelight

Posted on August 26, 2013 by Sharon

A pleasure for many is the romantic atmosphere itself. What says romance more than a lovely room, that smells beautiful and is lit by the light of several candles? Candles today are more than just for looks as well, many candles melt into a massage oil for couples to enjoy and indulge in. They are low heat burning candles and melt into a wonderful oil that can be massaged into your lover before embarking on a wonderful and romantic filled evening of passionate lovemaking.

They are beautiful to look at, often are infused with wonderful and fruity scents to please the nose and nothing gives the warm, welcoming glow that candles do. A woman, and man too for that matter, look best by the forgiving glow of candlelight. Not everyone has a beautiful, roaring fireplace, but anyone can bring the warmth of candles into their bedroom to help set the mood, no matter their budget. You don’t need to always get expensive, fancy candles, the dollar store even has a fine selection of them to lend a lovely warm glow to your bedroom.

Surprise your lover by having a bedroom all set and lit with them when they come home from a hard day at the office, have the bathroom filled with tiny votive candles as well, draw a sensual bubble bath for them, and maybe crawl in and join them…Mmmmmm, always nice to get nice and clean before you plan on getting dirty together! Get as many as you can, a few dozen in various sizes and see what sort of evening of romance you can create.

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The Excitement Of A New Lover

Posted on August 19, 2013 by Sharon

The excitement of a new lover is something many of us look forward to with great anticipation. The build up, the intensity, the newness of it all. The anticipation is frequently greater than the actual event sad to say, and to some, once that new feeling is over, they are conquered and done. One client I have goes on and on about new girls, he sees escorts regularly and usually not twice. Once they have been had, the grass is always greener in the next pasture over.

And wouldn’t you know, I’m the “great love of his life”. And of course he can’t ever have me. Good thing, since I’ve no doubt if he did, I’d never get another die eoff of him, once I’d have been sampled, I’d lose all appeal. So have to keep up the from afar thing going. He only lives less than a couple of hours away and I don’t think he’s a lunatic or anything, but if he ever got that foot in the door, he’d be lost to me forever as a client and all money would stop. He goes on about new escorts as if he’s a kid in a candy store. “Look at this one! Oh, I want that one!” the insatiable need for something new and different is the downfall of some men. I wonder what goes on in his wife’s head.

Can an actual event ever live up to our anticipation of it? Sometimes the first time can be the best time, other times, it gets better as it goes along and you discover more about the person and know what each other likes more and more. In those cases, the first time is just a jumping off point to bigger and better and more enjoyable experiences with that person.

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Fat Ass

Posted on August 12, 2013 by Sharon

Now there are guys that like big girls and guys that love big asses. Some fairly normal sized girls, Jennifer Lopez and Kim Kardashian come to mind, have overly large out of proportion asses, yet many guys adore such a figure. From talking to so many men, I have determined most prefer sex in the doggy style position. Obviously the ass is the view they see in this position unless they are doing it in the dark. Asses matter, and a flat one is not desirable.

In Brazil, one of the most popular plastic surgeries is not breast augmentation, it is buttock implants. The beaches of Rio are apparently filled with ass implants. Some asses are too big though, there indeed can be too much of a good thing. The ass pictured here reminds me of a pumpkin if it was white, with the ridges, or a bulb of garlic, way out of proportion to the much slimmer waist, yet you can bet some guy somewhere is indeed drooling over this overly ample ass and jerking off to it and imagining fucking it with great gusto and passion. You’d need a slightly larger than average cock I’d think to fuck from behind with such a plump ass.

Then you have the ones into “queening”. Face sitting with that fat ass on their face. I don’t know how the poor devil wouldn’t have been smothered to death with that great big behind on them. As we get older, our more plump parts usually do indeed seem to deflate and become much less attractive. Flabby and swinging and not good to look at, at all. These are times for the lights to be out and do it in darkness and save ourselves the embarrassment of what time has done to us.

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What We Can Learn From Porn

Posted on August 5, 2013 by Sharon

The new, humorous video below shows the differences between real and sex and porn sex, which got me thinking. We actually can learn something from porn. I mean, obviously they are educational if nothing else. Porn can be robotic and mechanical and with no emotions. I always thought if you could get real actors to just carry on during a love scene, that would be the most erotic thing, but of course A list actors are not about to have real sex on screen, and as we all know, porn stars are not going to be winning any awards for their huge acting abilities.

People in porn are well groomed. Most real life people are not. Think though, if your junk was going to be captured for eternity and possibly seen by untold millions, you might be a bit more diligent about what’s going on down there, correct? If you are unfortunate enough to have to take public transportation, most of the people don’t even look like they are clean. Ones that even still have teeth, lord knows when the last time was when they were to a dentist or brushed them, do you think these ungroomed greasy haired masses are shaving off their pubes or doing anal bleaching? Kinda doubt it……

Ones are in porn because they can last a long time, or have a bigger than average cock, or in some way exceed the average sexual standards. It’s like everyone can run, but how many get to go to the Olympics for it? Same thing, most people have sex, but how many do it so well others are going to pay to see it. So if you’re on display, you’re going to be doing it better than the average person would, or you wouldn’t be there in the first place.

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Three’s Company

Posted on July 29, 2013 by Sharon

When you mention a threesome, you likely think a guy wants a threesome with two girls, and make no mistake, many guys do fantasize about this scenario for sure. One I talked with that had done a threesome with two girls said while it was of course enjoyable, it was stressful to have that pressure to satisfy two women. Many men can’t totally please one, two is even more of a concern. As is stamina.

However so many men I talk to have desires to be in a threesome with another guy. They want to know if would excite me to see them with another guy, how I would guide or instruct them with each other. How I would have them please me together, to feel both of them working on me at the same time doing their best to please me and drive me wild together. I think it would be very interesting to have not one but two doing their best to make me cum over and over and making it their goal to exhaust me with passion.

For many it also seems to make it “less gay” for them to explore another man in the presence of a woman. Many wish to suck cock and have me be the one pushing it, making them less responsible for pursuing it if I am the one pushing it to happen. They want it, but they don’t want to want it, and by my asking them and telling them how much it turns me on, it takes away that the seed of desire is in fact in their own mind.