World of Sexual Pleasures

Gay Porn Is Hot!

Posted on June 17, 2013 by Sharon

Ok, gotta admit it, I think gay porn is hot. I know a lot of callers not only watch it, but they dream of sucking cock as well. That was one of the first things that struck me when I became an operator, nearly half of all callers wanted to suck cock or had an experience or two years ago and it had long lasting effects on them and provided masturbation material for decades.

I recall a free weekend on the gay porn channel years ago and was very turned on by watching the guys suck each other off, kiss and rub their cocks together and give each other hand jobs, I was truly aroused, dripping wet and masturbated to it and watched several of the movies. Tons of guys have same sex curiosities, and in the homophobic society we live in it’s amazing to me, since I believe most of us have bisexual tendencies. Not all, but many, just depends on the person and how far they are willing to go with someone of the same sex. I have never done anything with another woman, but perhaps that’s just because I have never had the chance, you never know until you’re in a given situation how you will react to it, no matter how much you may speculate.

I always think of guys especially that are such staunch homophobes, “Me thinks the lady doth protest too much”. Studies have even shown men who had penile arousal impulses measured in labs, the ones that were the most anti-gay had the strong reactions to being shown same sex porn. Religion has so fucked people up as to what they think is acceptable, it’s sad that you can’t just let people live and let live. If they are not harming anyone or involving minors, get the fuck over it and mind your own business.

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Cam Sex

Posted on June 10, 2013 by Sharon

A pleasure for many is web cam sex. Not everyone is satisfied with just phone sex. Some guys are so visually oriented, they need to see as well as hear and web cam sex will be the ticket to get them off and make their masturbation ever so much more exciting. Some are happy with using cam sites and having a professional masturbate for them, others want a girl to really be enjoying it and masturbating with them, which of course is much harder to find to get a truly mutual exchange like that.

I’ve known more than a handful of guys that have been blackmailed by girls they found for free in chat rooms. A professional cam girl will not be blackmailing her clients. They may not be having a genuine orgasm as they perform, but they will do their best to look convincing in any case and put on a good show, and in all honesty a horny man may be so concentrating on the images in front of him, he may not be too worried about the girl really getting off with him and it being a mutual experience. I wonder how many guys are worried about a hooker they hire having an actual orgasm? I don’t know, maybe they understand more than phone sex and cam sex customers that a hooker is there for their enjoyment and they are not worried about making the professional cum.

Even if not horny, and arousing sight can turn a man horny very quickly, if they are already aroused when they call for phone or cam, I wouldn’t think it would take much to get them off, but I’m not a cam girl, so I can’t say for sure as I have zero experience with that, phone I know, cam not at all. I do get asked daily though if I’d cam and the answer is always no, but I know from getting asked so much how many men wish to watch.

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Talk To Me….

Posted on June 3, 2013 by Sharon

A pleasure for some is just general conversation. I honestly prefer these calls to all others, and they are few and far between, sometimes only a few a month are calling to just talk and have no sex talk. They are either just lonely or don’t have anyone to talk to about every day stuff. I talked to one last night about hair styles and old t.v. shows. Calls like that are the oasis in my week.

You almost feel guilty for getting paid for calls like that, since they aren’t any work at all they are just like casual conversation with a friend, talking about this and that, telling jokes, all kinds of silly stuff. Then you get the ones that are calling and looking at you as a cheaper alternative to a psychiatrist, but sometimes we are around the same price…They are just able to be more comfortable with phone sex girls because they are not face to face with them, they couldn’t really tell a doctor all they tell us without being judged and having it put in some medical file. We are the faceless alternative that’s easier for them to unload on.

Sometimes talking to a stranger can indeed be a lot easier than telling a friend or family member these things. Like telling a bartender your troubles. They are an objective person removed from the situation, like we are. I have even had men tell me they hired escorts just to talk to them. One said it was like phone sex in person. Another said the escorts, some of them, were a bit uncomfortable with such a situation, that they were used to being hired to, well, do what escorts do, and a deviation from that, even one that was less work for her, seemed strange and unusual to deal with. Give me general conversation any day.

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Silk Underwear

Posted on May 27, 2013 by Sharon

A pleasure for some is fabric. Some are into leather, other suede, some silk. The tactile sensation of certain fabrics against the cock can drive some men wild. One of my clients has a real thing for his vast collection of silk boxers. He has hundreds of pairs in many different colors and simply cannot masturbate without them. He doesn’t even use his hands to masturbate, it’s kind of odd. He just uses his thighs, pumping his dick between his legs.

The silk boxers he has and wears add to the friction, and he won’t masturbate nude, only in the silk underwear or lounge pants he has. He also puts them on over his head and sucks on the crotches, not of his own, but of ladies that have let him keep them that he knew. A sexual souvenir so to speak. I laughed when he said he was glad his new condo had its own laundry in it, as he was often embarrassed going down to the communal laundry room at his old building since he had so many pairs of cummed on underwear in his basket, he was afraid ones would think he was wetting his pants or something, since there was so many pair in there over and above the normal amount.

An underwear fetish isn’t anything too out there, it’s pretty tame in reality compared to a lot of weird things I hear about that ones are fixated on. If silk underwear is what gets you going, the more power to you. He often says how he desires a pair of Megan Fox’s panties, but I’m kind of thinking he’s not going to be acquiring a pair of her worn panties any time soon. Oh well, guess he will have to stick to real live girls in his life he gets them from.

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May Is National Masturbation Month

Posted on May 20, 2013 by Sharon

As some of you may know, May is national masturbation month. So let’s all celebrate by experiencing some serious self love. As Woody Allen said, “Don’t knock masturbation, it’s sex with someone I love.” Masturbation is the only sex many of us get if we are not in a relationship or don’t pay for sex or have fuck buddies, so many of us treasure it, since if it wasn’t for our own hands, we would be having zero orgasms, you just can’t count on others to please you.

It’s hard to understand how just a few generations ago doctors spoke out on the evils of masturbation and how it was responsible from everything from mental health issues to physical problems. Everything from going blind to going crazy was the result of touching our genitals. Many are not aware that it was a Dr. that invented Kellogg’s Corn Flakes as an anti masturbation food designed to lower libido. It sounds insane, but look it up, trust me, it’s 100% true. The good Dr. Kellogg never consummated his own marriage even, since not only was masturbation a sin, but regular sex was as well in his eyes.

Being in this masturbation driven job, after all if men were not calling to masturbate there really wouldn’t be any phone sex operators, has really loosened me up in regards to this topic and now it’s hard to not casually mention in conversations with others, others who may not even know my job, and ask them about their sex lives and masturbation habits. You really have to keep yourself in check to keep it under your hat. Masturbation still has a long way to go before it’s totally accepted, but it has come a long way for sure. It’s as natural as drinking or eating or sleeping, yet sure doesn’t have the same acceptability level. Maybe someday, maybe someday…….