Set The Mood

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So many times we think of sex, we think of the basic mechanics of sex and many times a good fuck is gonna get the job done, but romance does have its place too. It doesn’t need to be candlelight and flowers every single time, but it would be nice if it was a bit more often than just birthdays and Valentine’s Day, too.

Your lover will appreciate the gesture if you set up a romantic evening now and then and have candles, maybe some massage oil and nice, soft music in the background. A sensual evening that will make for wonderful memories and a hot, relaxed evening for the both of you. Everyone looks better by candlelight, its soft glow the most forgiving light by far. Rub your lover down with creams, lotions, massage oils all over, moisturize their skin and make them feel appreciated as you lavish all that attention on them.

Make your lover the star of the evening and pamper them and make them feel fantastic and them see you as the generous, kind lover that’s giving them one mind blowing orgasm after the next and making you feel fantastic. One always come back to a generous lover that makes them feel appreciated and even worshiped if you want to got hat far. For ones into BDSM and are into Master and sub relationships, your Master will enjoy you showing him this attention. Satisfy your partner until they can’t take anymore, if you’re comfortable doing all the giving, don’t even worry about having an orgasm yourself, feel free to make it all about them.

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Tease And Denial For Women

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Tease and denial is usually reserved for men, yes, but some male partners keep their women in a state of want and heightened arousal and it can be very hot to surrender your orgasm to another person. Allowing them to control when or even if you are allowed to cum, you begging for it like a panting, wanton slut. When they finally allow you, you will be absolutely whimpering with need.

Some men take great desire in turning their women into begging to cum whores, it gives them a sense of control. Edging their woman for hours on end, making them quiver and squirm, it can be incredible. Making you stop and start and cool down before resuming, building up to a blockbuster orgasm. If you and your partner haven’t tried tease and denial, maybe you should consider it, if you can’t trust your guy, make him wear a chastity device, there are even ones for women if you can’t trust them either and they are willing to get into it.

Imagine being on your bed, maybe even tied up and blindfolded, being stroked and caressed almost to the point of orgasm again and again but not allowed to cum, you are literally begging for it and finally they allow you to cum, and you cream all over their fingers, or tongue or cock, whatever it is they see fit to erotically torment you with and allow you to cum with. Then you thank them for allowing you cum and be their whore.

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Lesbian Licking

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Not many gals are going to complain about a pussy licking, it’s one of the greatest sexual pleasures there is. My girlfriend and I were playing recently and she was driving me wild with her tongue, I was absolutely squirming under her. She loves to tease to the point of me begging her to let me cum and she can keep me literally quivering on the brink for hours, just making me plead to cum.

I felt her slip her hand into my panties and tease my stiffened clit for a while as we watched t.v, together, and then she pushed me back on the sofa and pulled off my jeans and pulled aside my panties and started to kiss down my belly and then finally open my cunt lips with her wet, warm tongue and drive me insane. My clit stiff and standing at attention just wanting her to suck it and drive me crazy. Sliding two fingers into my moist pussy and drag them back out covered in my juices and smear it all over my clit and then she licked them off so eagerly, teasing me.

I was arching my back and pulling her face right into my cunt, getting her all sticky and wet from ear to ear as she relished my sticky sweetness and I was bucking up against her face and begging for her to allow me to cum, my thighs were quivering. I wanted to cum so hard and she then increased her pace, licking faster and harder and knowing I was just about to go over that edge and I did and it was fantastic cumming all over her mouth that way.

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Happy 2016, A New Beginning For Your Relationship

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Not everyone needs to go out and party on New Year’s Eve to have a good time. Going out can be fun, yes, but a nice, quiet, romantic evening at home being with your romantic partner can be even better. Two can be a lot more intimate than a crowd of people. Making a nice dinner and making love all night and bringing each other pleasure beats any party to me any night of the year.

The holidays can be hectic and perhaps you don’t have the privacy you normally might to be with your loved one, but it’s important to take the time to be together and just say to hell with everyone else. There’s nothing wrong with being selfish once in a while, you will be a lot happier if you do take time for yourself. Maybe take the time to discuss what in the upcoming new year you two can do to get more time together and fine even more pleasure. Can you set aside the funds and time for a vacation? Can you go to a couples retreat for a weekend and learn new things, like tantric sex or massage therapy, anything fun and unusual that brings you closer together is welcome, maybe even something like a cooking class.

The New Year is an opportunity to regroup and think about the year ahead and how you can improve upon yourself and your relationship. A new beginning. Even if things are great in your relationship, there’s always room to try new and exciting things to make the time you spend together even more fun and exciting. It’s amazing how some couples are never short on ideas and activities to spend time together, and others seem to live more separate lives. I guess what works for one couple might not be right for another and people need different levels of space and alone time.

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Fun In The Bath

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Making love in the tub or shower can absolutely be a fun way to enhance your physical sensations. Just be careful if standing not to slip, it’s difficult at times not to alone, let alone while on one foot and fucking another person, you want to cum, not crack your head open in the tub!

Lots of people masturbate in the tub or shower, so it’s not far fetched to think some also have sex in the tub. Hot water, steam, slippery, curious hands, what’s not to love? Water can be very sensual and adding sex to the mix makes it even more so. Hard, porcelain surfaces though can prove dangerous or uncomfortable if you’re on your knees. Some couple that like to get into watersports often use the tub to contain the mess. The backyard would seem preferable, but the neighbors would sure get an eyeful if you were pissing on hubby in the backyard!

Bubble baths, candles, bath bombs, so many delightful ways to get clean and then act dirty all at the same time. How sensual to have your lover wash your hair for you, or scrub your back and maybe give you a foot massage, (or a cock massage!) under the bubbly water. Hot, soapy water feels great, then once you’re both all clean, time to go into the bedroom and get dirty again. Ones not keen on oral sex will surely be a bit more tolerant if one is right out of the bath and squeaky clean. No need to be shy when all the dirt has been washed away. Kiss each other all over with no fears or worries.

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