Homemade Porn

Most couples like to watch porn as part of their sexual life, but have you ever thought of making your own and being a star in your own porn movie? Many couples are doing just that.

The advent of the Polaroid camera allowed many couples to for the first time take racy pics of themselves without worry of film labs seeing and possibly reporting them for indecent activity.

The VCR and camcorders virtually changed the porn industry. VCR sales were mainly driven by ones wanting to watch porn at home and not go to seedy theaters. Camcorders allowed couples the privacy to film themselves and watch easily, and an underground amateur porn market was created virtually overnight.

Many couples enjoy watching and filming themselves, and indeed some love to even just film themselves alone masturbating and watching themselves, it’s a bit different than just masturbating in front of a mirror, to be able to watch yourself that way.

Now with computers and webcams, couple miles apart can get off together and watch each other and masturbate as if they were in the same room with each other even if one is away on a business trip or something. The computer and digital age has certainly revolutionized the porn and sex industry and made it easier for couples to share their exploits with each other and the world.

Think of all the famous celebrity sex tapes of recent years and how the amateur porn captured in them catapulted the ones in it to even greater fame, like the Paris Hilton sex tape, and the Kim Kardashian one as well. The video of Tommy Lee and his then wife Pamela Anderson is one of the best selling porn tapes ever. Even the famous people record themselves…….

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Lip Smacking Good

If you’re asking a woman about one of her greatest sexual pleasures, you will no doubt find cunnilingus at the top of her list.

To feel a warm, wet, probing tongue and lips against a woman’s most tender parts, stimulating her to a wild climax. Yes, please!

What a wonderful prelude to lovemaking to first experience some oral sex play. And for many naughty boys that enjoy creampie, they also enjoy a good, through licking afterwards as well, once that sweet pussy has been filled to overflowing with cum and cleaning it out of every drop.

More women these days are sporting a shaved pussy, and many also prefer going down on a shaved woman so the hair doesn’t get in the way. Hair will always have it’s fans, but yours truly isn’t one of them. I like to keep a nice, shaved, ready to lick pussy.

Some men love to lick pussy more than any other sexual activity. Others, I have found mostly from Eastern countries, will not do it, even though they themselves expect oral to be performed on them. I’m sure you can guess what my answer to them would be, you don’t give, you won’t get…..Simple as that.

Before I took my phone job, I really thought most men only wanted to go down on a woman to return the favor so to speak, but I quickly learned many, even most men, just adore going down on their ladies for as long as they would like them to. I was glad to hear men are as giving as they appear to be for the most part in this area.

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The Pleasures Of Sex Toys

For many individuals and couples, one of the best sexual pleasures can be found with sex toys. Sex toys are big business, $15 billion annually, with 70% of them being made in China.

There are many different types of sex toys, ones for men, ones for women, and ones that can be used by both equally. Ones shaped like genitalia are by far the most popular. Even going back to the days of ancient Egypt, there were dildos carved of everything from wood to ivory. Cleopatra even had a vase kept bedside filled with buzzing bees as a makeshift vibrator. Hope it had a tight lid!

People think sex toys, and usually they think penetrative dildos, which is the most popular, yes, but there are also toys for men that simulate vaginas, and anal toys, beads, and butt plugs can be used and enjoyed by both sexes equally.

A surprising number of men adore using anal toys, as it can stimulate their prostates, which is like the equivalent of the g-spot in women. Many men indeed are using toys. Most just think vibrators and women, but sex toys are so much more than just that. 

Electric vibrators have their roots in Victorian England, developed by Dr.’s to use on women they were growing tiresome of giving the “pelvic massage” for “hysteria” in women. It sounds too crazy to be true, but it’s a fact.

Women were actually diagnosed with hysteria and what we now know as an orgasm was the proposed cure, and they went to Dr.’s to get a “pelvic massage” to alleviate the hysteria. Many of the Dr.’s spent days doing little more than massaging the genitals of their female patients, and a device was designed so the women could use it at home on themselves, thus sparing the Dr.’s the tiresome, hand numbing manual work. It was all viewed as non sexual. Unbelieveable such things transpired. Guess these gals never thought to touch themselves……

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Every Breath You Take

 

What can be as arousing as our lovers voice and breath in our ear in an imtimate moment? The breath on our neck, the lull of their passion filled voice whispering sweet nothings in our ear.

It drives me crazy to hear my man’s voice in my ear in an imtimate moment. To hear the change in his breathing as he becomes more and more aroused and you can feel the pace of his breath quicken and deepen. Faster and faster, deeper and deeper…….Fuck, it drives me wild to know I’m doing that to them. Creating that change in their breathing pattern.

If ones sound good enough with their breathing and sexy noises, moaning, etc., there is little need for words sometimes I find. I am extremely auditory and the breathing is so sexually arousing to me, it just drives me insane in the right one.

But when you combine that with ones that know how to talk dirty and arousingly, you have a winning combination in the bedroom. I love to hear them drive me wild with their words before they even lay a finger on me, that alone can get me dripping before there is any contact between us physically. Some are so good, you get excited just at the idea of being with them from their sounds alone.

I am always amazed when I am with someone new and their sounds so drive me wild, and I ask if their other partners they have been with also mentioned that and most say I am the first one to point out such a thing as the way they breathe and moan. I don’t know how the women out there can be so unaware, since it’s such an important thing to me and I notice it so dramatically.

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I Know Why She’s Smiling

Any woman can tell you there is a lot more uses for a shower massager than just rinsing off…*grins*……God bless the man that invented the modern shower massager, he had no idea, (or did he?) the wonderful tool he was creating for the millions of women out there who wanted a little more from their showers than a good, clean scrubbing.

From an early age I learned the power, literally and figuratively of a good “rinsing off”. And not only the Godsend known as the shower massager, but the same pleasures could also be found on the side of swimming pools in the pool jets and in hot tubs. Skinny dipping makes it even easier to enjoy these pleasures.

The firm, yet gentle underwater pressure, not as firm as the shower massager, but the pressure on a womans clit is simply divine. I have spoken to a few men who also put all these water jets to good use, but honestly very few.

Lord help the person that thinks they will ever take away my shower massager. I recall one thing I was very disappointed on during vacations, is in hotels and motels, the shower head is always, in my personal experience anyway, mounted on the stationary wall mount. I have never been to a hotel yet that had one of the beloved massagers on a hose. Couldn’t wait to get home to my massager……

Not only are they truly better for rinsing off, and men, all your parts are one the OUTSIDE, but for women regardless of pleasure, they are very handy for rinsing out all the nooks and crannies so to speak. But they also give incredibly intense orgasms that cannot be equalled.

Many women would prefer the less intense underwater type available from the pool jets, but some of us like the intense, hard, pounding on the clit of a hard, hot stream of water. Nothing can match that in intensity. I have actually fainted around 3 times from having an orgasm that way.

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