Humiliation is popular, but some want more than your standard humiliation when they call. A recent caller that’s been calling regularly is an admitted sadist. He likes when I tell him what a creep and broken human being he is. He said nothing makes him happier than to make a woman cry. Real Prince Charming, eh? He says many women enjoy being abused, which is sadly accurate. Like the lyric in the Sweet Dreams song by The Eurythmics, “Some of them want to abuse you, Some of them want to be abused.” That’s very true, some women with low self esteem do gravitate to men like this that are cruel, abusive and rotten to the core.
He said broken ones are his favorites, but he also likes highly spirited, feisty ones that he can break. I said it sounds like you’re talking about breaking a horse, he laughed. Many damaged people that need professional help do reach out to operators on the phone sex lines, but they do not think there’s anything wrong with them. Some are also beyond redemption. Not everyone can be helped, and many have no desire to be helped or to change. As long as they find someone consenting to it, that’s fine then.
More men that call are submissive, by a huge ratio, so it’s rare to get a dominant one on the line. Let alone one that is not only dominant, but cruel and that enjoys it. Many troubled people with lots of twisted fetishes and needs that reach out to women they consider nothing more than sex objects. He said the hookers he visits are nothing but objects for men to use. He honestly sounds like a sociopath, but he’s certainly not the first that has sounded that way. Playing therapist is very much a part of this line of work.
