What could be more of a sexual pleasure these days than casual sex, AKA “The Hook Up”. There has always been no strings attached sex, but it wasn’t as out there as it is these days with the hook up culture of ones these days. In college age people, it’s pretty well taken the place of dating entirely. Apparently love and dating have gone the way of the dodo bird.
You wanna do it, they wanna do it, so why waste time on dating and getting to know each other. Let’s just get to the good part. If both people are in agreement, there’s no problem really. The only concern with such casual couplings is the worry about sexually transmitted diseases. Since most hook ups seem to pretty well be one time things. If a hook up becomes a regular thing with the same people, then we move into fuck buddy territory. Which for some is even too much to ask, too much of a commitment.
I have gotten several messages on dating sites with the brief, “DTF?” I swear I didn’t even know what the Hell they were talking about, I actually had to type that in to a search engine to see what it meant. Well, for those in the know, it means “Down to Fuck”. So in essence they were asking if I was up for a hook up, or casual sex even though I clearly have on my page I’ve never had a one night stand and never will. But few of these dating site Lothario’s bother to do something as sensible as actually reading a profile.
Hook ups for women don’t seem to be as pleasurable for women as they are for men. Studies have shown while it’s standard for men during a hook up to receive blow jobs, women sadly are not getting such treatment in return. Seems most women lucky enough to get their pussy licked are in relationships, if you have a hook up ladies, expect your girl to be neglected in most cases. Not fair, but hey, if you now what you’re getting into and still want it, then play safe and have fun.
