Spanking is a pleasure for many men. Odd, you’d think a punishment couldn’t really be a pleasure, but many are in fact in love with being spanked. I wonder how many mothers out there would be as freewheeling with the spanking if they had any idea that they were in many instances bringing a lifelong fetish to life. I do not think it is a bad thing to spank a child within reason, I was spanked and it never damaged me in any way, but for males, it seems to take a different turn.
I’m thinking it’s often because men were spanked by their mothers rather than fathers and this happens at a time of sexual awakening and forever the two are intertwined. Perhaps if it was daddy doling out the swats the fetish around spanking wouldn’t be anywhere near the popular one it is. Men are just different. I’d estimate there’s equal amounts of girls getting spanked, yet they don’t grow up with it as a sexualized fetish for the most part. Some would sure, but not anywhere near like men do.
Hands, soaked in water wooden spoons, paddles, all kinds of things guys go for. It seems so childish to me, yet it’s a very popular fetish and pleasure. Harmless enough, as they are consenting, even though some literally want to be hit to the point of welts coming up and red skin. I often wonder how their mom’s would react if they had any idea their grown son’s were calling sex lines and talking about being spanked decades after the fact and how they masturbate thinking about it. Men are indeed different in their fantasies and pleasures.
