Sexy Movies

A sexual pleasure we all enjoy from time to time, whether alone or with someone, is a sexy movie. I’m not talking a graphic porno, but a real movie with a plot, real actors and everything….

To most of us, who grew up before the internet, porn was not easily accessible, and mainstream movies were our first real introduction to seeing a sex scene and feeling sexy.

I well recall being around 13 when Top Gun came out, and although not a Tom Cruise fan, the love scene in silhouette in that movie was very arousing, and I was very much turned on by it!

I’m sure we all have our list of favorite movies that had arousing scenes in them. I was the same age when 9 1/2 Weeks came out, which is still a very arousing movie, even more than 25 years later.

Kids and teens today take the internet for granted, they want to see pics of naked people or videos, they are two clicks away, easy as pie. Most generations grew up with such materials difficult to acquire and look at. I didn’t see my first porn movie until I was 25! Kids today would laugh at that and shake their heads in disbelief, I am sure.

The production quality on porn movies is laughably low, the acting bad, the plot, if you can even call it that, is inane. There’s honestly something to be said for the less graphic, but higher quality romantic scenes in a mainstream movie done by well known actors. No, you don’t get to see as much as in a porn movie, but to so clearly recollect love scenes from movies over 25 years old, then there’s real artistic value to them, I seriously doubt 25 years from now you will so clearly recollect a scene from some no name porn you watched.

Here’s a few of my favorites.

1. 9 1/2 Weeks

2. Thief of Hearts

3. Secretary

4. Blue Lagoon

5. Summer Lovers

6. Last Tango In Paris

7. Two Moon Junction

8. Body Heat

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Fuck Me From Behind!

I can tell you one thing for sure, when I ask most guys what their favorite sexual position is, the number one answer I get, like 90%, is always doggy style. They love it.

The nice, deep penetration is what they crave the most it seems, even at the expense of eye contact, guess you could get that if looking in a mirror or she spun her head around and looked at you over her shoulder. Seems more animalistic to me and lacking in intimacy, yet most prefer it hands down.

I guess when they want to fuck, they do it from behind, when they want to make love, they want missionary, and that’s the least popular answer I get, so guess that means most men just want fucking instead of making love….

Many women also love doggy style position sex since it is able to hit their G spot and bring on an intense orgasm. This position isn’t likely to be the first one you and a new partner try, as it does lack the face to face intimacy of missionary, or even the eye to eye contact with woman on top, but once everyone is comfortable with one another, it may well be your favorite position.

Sex with guys with smaller cocks allows for deeper penetration as well, so they also might like that and find it makes them seem a bit larger than they actually are. So one can see how it’s so popular with hitting G spots and the deepest penetration. So let’s all rut like animals and do it doggy style…

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A Kiss Is Still A Kiss

What could be more of a sexual pleasure than kissing? Kissing usually leads to much more passionate sexual adventures, but in and of itself it is a wonderful experience.

Kissing can be as simple as a peck on the cheek, or a passionate, wet, juicy tongue twirling extravaganza that will lead to heavy breathing and wild lovemaking. It leads to other things quickly….Who among us doesn’t recall our first kiss and who it was with? Such nervousness, such intensity, such worries over our breath, is it ok, will I please them, will it go well, will they want to kiss me again?

Kissing is universal. Casual greeting kisses are more common in other cultures than North American ones, with men and women greeting each other with double cheek kisses, this just isn’t done here. North American males would be too afraid of someone calling them a fag! 

Between lovers, how divine it is. How many songs have been written about kissing or kisses, a lot. So many memorable movie kisses over the decades, I’m sure we can all think of our favorites easily.

In the movies, until the 70’s, there was not a lot of open mouth kissing going on, it was just considered too risqué. It’s always amusing in the older movies to see these tight, closed mouth kisses where the people are just not doing anything except holding their lips together, no passion, no movement, no deep tongue thrusts filled with passion. It can be very sexy to watch others kiss, and obviously even sexier to be a part of it yourself……

How To Kiss Someone Passionately (Dating Humor).

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Call Of The Wild

A pleasure to many men is a loud woman. And I don’t mean as in talking all the time. I mean loud when in the throes of ecstasy. Sex sounds can be very arousing. As enthusiastic as men may be, I think most women can hoot and holler a lot louder than any man.

If you’ve ever been at a hotel next to a “noisy couple” shall we say, who is it you hear, it’s usually the woman. I am proud to say I personally have been told by guys, they have “never heard louder”, and they love it. I usually have a bit of a sore throat after around three orgasms. After seven once, it was sore til the next day…*blushes*

After reading up on women’s sex noises, it has been determined by some to be a mating call to alert nearby males there’s a ready, willing, and able available female nearby ready for action. Basically inviting nearby males to the party.

I have also read that biologically speaking, when a woman orgasms and makes noise, it triggers the male to cums seconds afterwards. I have personally found this to be true many times. As soon as I start to cum and am loud, they do right after. When a woman orgasms, her uterus contracts, as soon as a man cums and he deposits sperm, her contracting uterus is basically sucking up the sperm with every contraction, making conception more possible than if she didn’t orgasm. It’s still possible of course, but it does increase the chances.

So sex noises do serve a purpose biologically, but most people are more concerned about the it turning them on factor. I don’t need a guy to be loud, I’m more into the breathing noises than actual orgasm noises, but for many guys, they love a loud woman……

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Aphrodisiacs

For many aphrodisiacs are a real sexual pleasure. Oysters, mandrake root, Spanish fly. All sorts of things and for all sorts of reasons. Look at the oyster here. There isn’t much to say, it clearly looks like a woman’s vagina. Aphrodisiacs were often chosen because they resembled either female or male genitalia and they were thought to enhance sexual desire and performance by the mere fact that they resembled the body parts that they do.

Now oysters do have a good amount of zinc in them, which is thought to increase libido. But not just the site of them, but the salty taste and smell of the sea can also be said to be similar to a woman’s intimate parts.

Oysters and mandrake root are not harming anyone, but sadly over the centuries many animals have been needlessly killed in the search for the most powerful aphrodisiacs. Ones have used everything from deer penises to bear gallbladders. Most are just in the mind of the one consuming them, it’s mainly the power of suggestion.

Sensual foods like chocolates, a common Valentine’s Day gift, are much safer and less cruel aphrodisiacs to try and see if they work. Many of these foods like chocolate do actually have chemical compounds in them that are similar to ones our bodies make when in love or aroused. But they are usually in such small amounts, it’s negligible that any real effect is gotten. Stick to the oysters, chocolates and herbal supplements. No harm there….

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