World of Sexual Pleasures

Underneath Your Clothes

Posted on April 28, 2014 by Sharon

Lingerie is like wrapping yourself up for your lover in a pretty satin and lace package. A feast for their eyes and making them want you even more since you took the time and the trouble to make yourself up for them. So many different types of lingerie out there, from stockings and garter belts, matching bra and panties, corsets. Many men seem to enjoy having sex with the lingerie on their ladies.

They adore the feel of the silky fabric under their hands, as they slide them all over you, caressing you. Many men enjoy wearing lingerie themselves, they just adore the tactile sensations. I get lots of callers that like to hear about the lingerie I’m wearing and how they’d fuck me in it. It’s always fun to think about a woman wearing something sexy underneath her hum drum clothes, like the librarian wearing something prim and proper and then wearing something terribly racy underneath that would make a whore blush!

You never know what someone has on under their clothes, upskirt pics are popular with guys trying to take pics of what a lady has on underneath her short skirt to drool over. Not too difficult to get a digital camera or a cell phone to quickly take a peek up the skirt and then maybe even post the pics online. There’s a whole thing online about websites that exist for no other reason than to share upskirt pics and post them all over the net. Modern day peeping Tom’s.

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Guided Masturbation-Not Just For Men

Posted on April 21, 2014 by Sharon

The art of guided masturbation is not just of interest for men, it can be quite a pleasurable sensation for a woman as well. To do as your partner tells you to do, as they are instructing you to stop, start, the pressure with which you are touching yourself. I’ve been having phone sex for years, have had tons of guided masturbation calls for men, with me doing the instructing. When I had a personal partner do it to me, I couldn’t believe it.

It was fantastic and I loved it and wanted more. It has a real effect on me, and I’m assuming it has the similar effect on guys and that’s why they love it so much. I guess it takes a real special sort to enjoy doing it, I like getting it a whole lot more than giving it, oh well, that’s what happens when you’re selfish in the sack! It’s much more fun to take than to give! Some do truly enjoy giving pleasure, it’s the pleasure of the other person that gets them off, so it’s always a perfect match when you get a giving partner and the receiving partner, once in a while you can switch it up for fun, but most people are fairly comfortable in their roles as givers or takers.

To lay back and do as you are told, without question, to be submissive to their instructions, believe me, the payoff of the stronger orgasm awaits you if you find someone that’s halfway adequate at doing it. You will cum harder than if you’re just going at your own pace. Sometimes it’s a wonderful thing to relinquish control and just give in, let them have the say and set the pace. It’s a very good thing.

Pleasure For Your Nipples

Posted on April 14, 2014 by Sharon

Many think of nipples as exclusively a womanly thing, but men do indeed have them and some very much enjoy them being stimulated. I do not watch many clients on cam, but a recent one I’ve watched a few times does indeed enjoy stimulating his nipples. It seems odd for a man to find pleasure in that, since it seems more of a female thing, but he does indeed stroke his cock with one hand and play with his nipples with the other.

Rubbing them with his fingers and tweaking them. He said it really enhances his masturbatory pleasure. He asked me the first time I watched him if I found it weird he enjoyed it so much, I said no, I’ve certainly heard of other men deriving pleasure from it many times. Nipples do enchant some men when women play with them as well. I can’t even count the number of guys that have asked me if I’m able to suck my own nipples, I can, but it doesn’t do anything for me pleasure wise. The seem to hope that because you can, you must surly do this all the time, since how could it not be pleasurable?

Many do indeed have very sensitive nipples that bring them great joy, and for those that do, I’m glad for them. Not all of us have that pleasure from them though. Pinching, tweaking, sucking, from ourselves if we can reach, or another doing it for us. I can think of one client of mine that is obsessed with breasts, one of several, and he said he loved to suck on his former girlfriend’s nipples and he knew she wasn’t into it, that he would look up and “see the boredom in her eyes”, I chuckled at his candor, but it just goes to show, what’s a pleasure for one is just a chore for another.

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Speak To Me…

Posted on April 7, 2014 by Sharon

What is sweeter to our own ears than our native language? Many of us like certain accents of others but nothing quite gets to our heart like another speaking our own tongue. What happens if you call someone for phone sex and you want to hear certain words in your own language that the phone sex provider isn’t familiar with though?

Well the other night I had such an experience. This man from Denmark, who had almost no accent his English was perfect, really wanted me to say certain words back to him in his native language. He said them and spelled them, as I typed them out and then said them back to him. He went quite wild as I did this to him, and was told to intersperse English words for Danish ones. I’d never had a call like it, he was quite aroused to have taught me the words for cock, pussy, big, huge, balls!

Certain words and sounds can indeed make us melt and it’s not difficult to teach a few words to someone and have them say them back to you. So if I ever meet a Danish guy and say, “I want that (big) stor (cock) pik in my (pussy) fisse!” he’ll drop his jaw for sure! A man once wanted me to try this on a recording in Hindi, and I’m afraid even with recordings as samples on how to say the words, I couldn’t get the hang of it. Some languages are a lot easier to roll off the tongue than others. I do wish I was multi lingual, that would increase ones clients base for sure and make you more desirable, but except for a couple of Danish words now, I’m English only!

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Take Your Time

Posted on March 31, 2014 by Sharon

One of the most obvious of sexual pleasures is taking your time. I cannot for the life of me understand people that feel the need to rush. I guess for many that comes from masturbating in childhood and teenage years and having to rush to finish before they were discovered, and sadly this leap to rush seems to go on through life even though no such fears of getting caught remain.

I always feel bad for premature ejaculators when they call and how they are too lazy to train themselves out of it. There’s definitely men that can last a long time, they appreciate passion and are in no rush, they like to savor their pleasures, they are always higher ranked in my books than the wham, bam, thank you ma’am types, they are just annoying. Unless you’ve got someone beating on your door, what exactly are you rushing for, it’s not a race to see who can cum the fastest. I think I’d like the tantric sex guys that can go for hours, well, that might be TOO long, but you get the idea. No need to rush a good thing.

Build up is a wonderful thing. You will cum harder if it’s been a few days since your last orgasm obviously, you will also have a more enjoyable orgasm if it’s reached slowly and teasing yourself, or having your partner tease you for a good long while before cumming. Enjoy the journey, the destination is never in doubt, but enjoy the ride getting there as well.