Anal Pleasures

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Pleasure for many in sex involves the anus. Analingus is licking the anus and inserting your tongue inside. Not for the squeamish or everyone for sure. But it’s not just ass licking going on here, asses get lost of attention these days, with over 15% of people claiming to have gotten into anal play of some kind. Anal toys are very popular. I cannot even count the number of guys that call that are into dildos for use on themselves, many using girlfriends toys they don’t even know their boyfriends are using in secret.

I know many callers like to talk about licking ass and having me use a strap on on them, all sorts of anal toys are used, beads that are inserted and then slowly pulled out one by one on a long string, and the prostate massagers in particular are in demand. They go inside and the users rock back and forth while using them, and the tip rubs against their prostate. Many also have built in vibrators. The prostate is to men what the G spot is to women. A pleasure powerhouse that creates explosive orgasms, yet undiscovered by many.

Many women discover the pleasures of analingus during a misplaced tongue during a round of oral sex. Many are concerned about the hygiene of the act and worried about contact with fecal matter, which is a real fear. If you are determined to try analingus, it’s advised you have an enema beforehand and a hot, soapy shower to make sure everything is as clean as it can be inside and out. It is a risky activity, even if everyone involved is disease free, there’s always bacteria from the intestines to be worried about. Dental dams can be used if you don’t wish skin to skin contact, but ones determined will go forth in most cases, risks be damned.

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Tight Is Right

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How are you doing “down there” for tightness ladies? Many times as we get older, after having given birth vaginally especially, things are just not the same. You can question if your man is as happy with the way you feel, if much has changed. There are things you can do. Vaginal rejuvenation surgery has become increasingly popular. Kegal exercises are also used by many women, but do require dedication to do them.

You can also get something that is recommended by Dr.’s and gynocologist’s to help and that’s Ben Wa balls. There are many kinds of eggs and balls out there, once inserted your muscles contract around them to keep them in place, thus creating tightness and making things better. After a few weeks or months or using them regularly, things will improve. They come in different sizes and are weighted. Some varieties have strings connecting the balls, others are loose and free floating.

Just think of how much your guy will appreciate your newly tightened pussy the next time you two make love if you’ve been using balls like this for a few weeks. A tight pussy will have him begging for more. Women have been struggling with wanting more tightness since the dawn of time, and tightening toys and devices have been around for hundreds of years. These are safer than surgery, but of course won’t yield the dramatic results as quickly, but if you’d like to try and get things back to how they used to be, these Ben Wa balls can certainly be a good start to trying.

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To Cut Or Not To Cut?

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An uncircumcised cock is a pleasure for the men that have it and apparently the women as well they are with. It is a tricky subject to deal with. On one hand a circumcised cock does look better, no doubt about it. And they are cleaner, no extra skin to pull and forth when bathing to worry about stuff accumulating under it. Women with partners with uncircumcised cocks have three times as many bladder infections, so it does have medical benefits.

Ones have said the entire reason society, religions in particular, encouraged circumcision at all was to reduce sensation and make sex less enjoyable. To make it something to be over and done with quickly and only procreative purposes. There are groups out there today looking to reclaim their foreskins, yes reclaim them…Well, not the actual foreskins, they were disposed of years ago, but as in stretching the ones they have to a degree they act as a foreskin.

It does only make sense that when something is exposed and uncovered it becomes less sensitive, and the whole idea here is to make it less sensitive, less enjoyable. With a foreskin intact that pleasure is maintained, they just have to be not lazy when cleaning it properly, if they are, then they can suffer the consequences of that. It does have higher rates of sexually transmitted disease, but again it comes down to cleaning and can be done properly. I do understand the idea of it not being wise to go altering our bodies as nature made them. Animals don’t do these sorts of modifications, yet man has decided that we should.

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Happy Valentine’s Day!

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Valentine’s Day is upon us yet again. There’s many different things you can do to make it a day filled with pleasure for you and your mate. If you like going out to eat, you can have a nice dinner out on the town. Most people like to go out for such a special occasion rather than be at home slaving away in front of the stove. A beautiful dinner and dessert and a couple of bottles of wine goes a long way to add to a romantic evening.

A thoughtful man will get some flowers and candy and the extra lucky girl might even get some jewelry or tickets to some live theater. Maybe when you get back home a saucy gift bag filled with some sexy lingerie and some sex toys and candles will fit the bill. You could even go all out and hire a masseuse for the two of you to come over and give you both sensual massages to get you all aroused and in the mood. Once they leave, oh boy, you can slip and slide all over each other, making sweet, sensual love all night long.

Yes, it would be nice to go away for an expensive weekend getaway, but that’s not always in the budget and a romantic evening at home can be more than satisfying. Some couples may try and make everyday Valentine’s Day, but many get wrapped up in work and busy lives and simply don’t take the proper time for one another. To have an actual day set aside to celebrate love and romance makes us take notice and set “special time” aside to cherish each other. If the budget allows, go all out, if not, a nice special dinner at home can still be a wonderful prelude to hot, steamy sex. 

 

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Ice Ice Baby

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Ice ice baby….believe it or not, some people use ice when they masturbate. Some men have been know to actually insert ice cubes up their ass as they masturbate. Some women have been known to have some crushed ice cubes in their mouths when they give a blow job to a guy and he can feel the cold of the ice and the heat of her mouth. I’d kind of think the cold would lead to “shrinkage”, but if he likes it…

I have known certain Mistress’s to tell their slaves to insert ice cubes up their ass. Doesn’t sound too pleasant to me, but I’m convinced every weird thing to do out there has its fans and it will bring pleasure to someone, somewhere. It’s not going to hurt you, unless the edges of the ice cubes are sharp or something like that. You could easily run them under warm water ahead of time to smooth out the edges so as not to inflict any harm upon yourself. Some have described the act of masturbating with ice inserted into their anus as exquisite.

So if the tinkle of ice cubes in a glass drives you wild thinking of all the naughty things you can also do with that ice, than by all means, have a go at it and enjoy yourself. Some women no doubt would insert ice cubes into their pussies as well, just have to see I guess and see if it’s a turn on for you. 

 

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