Teeth Or No Teeth?

Posted on November 26, 2012 by Sharon

There is the pleasure of blow jobs, and then there is the oh so different pleasure of blow jobs without teeth. I can’t say I haven’t heard of this before, but never has anyone mentioned it to me personally until a few days ago. This man mentioned how much he loved giving blow jobs, then he also mentioned he had false teeth, and how much more pleasurable it was for the other person when he removed his dentures…

It’s honestly pretty gross! But I can see how it would feel better. I have had some guys talk about how they like teeth during blow jobs, some even like to be bitten to the point of drawing blood, but the no teeth thing would give the mouth a pussy-like feel to it. One I used to talk to had some kind of tooth cover mouthguard he used to insert into his mouth prior to sucking cock. His boyfriend actually called him pussymouth or cuntface, such charming nicknames, no? He would go on about having his teeth removed to please his boyfriend, but I think he was all talk. He used to talk about being castrated and keeping his balls in a jar on the mantle as well, so I think he’s in a bit of a different league.

“Honey, would you take your dentures out?” Doesn’t really have much of a romantic ring to it, does it now? Imagine hearing that as your romantic love call? Good grief. There are just so many bad jokes about this no teeth blow job thing, I don’t know where to start.

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Let Me Smooth Some Lotion On

Posted on November 19, 2012 by Sharon

A sexual pleasure for one man I recently spoke with, perhaps it might even fall into the fetish arena, is he gets very aroused watching a woman apply lotion all over themselves. It gets him instantly hard. If he sees a woman applying lotion, even if he was not previously attracted to her, she is now an object of desire to him instantly. He has never revealed this obsession to any of the woman in his life, since he didn’t want to give them any power over him, and he knew if they knew what it did to him, he’d be their slave.

The act of seeing a woman casually apply lotion to their hands at the office, in a store at a cosmetics counter, in a drugstore trying a sample, is apparently enough to drive the poor man wild. I said if you really wanted to drive yourself wild on a regular basis, why not place a lotion dispenser on the corner of your desk and allow anyone that went by to freely use it. He felt the idea was just too wild, he couldn’t stand being in such a constant state of arousal as this would put him in. Just too much of a risk to dare chance.

He said once he was in a bar and a lady bartender was applying some lotion to her hands and she saw him watching her as if she “knew” and then touched his face afterwards, and this incident had quite an effect on him. I said it was highly unlikely she knew the effect it had, and it was just a happy coincidence. When he’s had girlfriends come out of the shower or bath and start to smooth themselves down with lotion, it’s often led to steamy sexual encounters, he just can’t control himself. Seems a fairly tame little fetish, but he was so worried I’d find him odd, not at all, very tame and innocent really.

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Masturbation Buddies

Posted on November 12, 2012 by Sharon

All orgasms are not created equal. Many of us know this without needing statistics to back it up. The human body produces 400% more prolactin after sex with a partner than if just masturbating alone. You are still having an orgasm, yet it is simply more pleasurable with another person and the body reacts as such.

Once I got into phone sex, I quickly realized that masturbation alone was like black and white, phone sex was like technicolor. It’s physically the same sensation yes, but emotionally it’s totally different. No one should masturbate alone, it’s so lonely in comparison! It’s like lettuce and steak, both might fill your stomach and make you not hungry anymore, but which would you rather have? Steak, of course!

Talking and interacting with another person makes it a totally different experience, even your body knows that from the hormones it secretes, it’s just a better experience. Once you have experienced both, I cannot fathom who would prefer alone. Many guys have masturbation buddies they watch porn with and have fun with, they are not touching each other, but they are doing it in  the same room and getting more aroused knowing another person is doing it at the same time, it heightens it and makes it more pleasurable. It’s a shame more people don’t have fun with their friends in such a manner! Not everyone is comfortable doing something so private in the room with another person, if people loosened up they’d have a lot more fun for sure!

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Bare Is Best

Posted on November 5, 2012 by Sharon

A sexual pleasure for many is going condom free, which if you are in a monogamous relationship and you’re on birth control is totally fine, but casual sex really needs to be safe. Gliding into someone totally bare, nothing between you has got to be the most romantic, sexy thing for fucking. To take the love fluids from one body and transfer them into the other, such closeness, such intimacy.

Spontaneity is also a good thing that ones can enjoy when condoms do not have to be considered. Have you gone to the drugstore? Are you in your fertile time? When you’re on the pill and in a committed relationship, you don’t have to worry about these sorts of mood killers, you just go with the flow and enjoy your partners seed flowing into you as nature intended.

The dulling of sensations, I had one guy say to me wearing a condom made it feel he was fucking a mannequin. Ha ha, I kind of see his point. It’s a sad thing disease and pregnancy get in the way of good, messy fun, but that’s just a fact of life it seems.

Condoms have been around for hundreds of years as a way of pregnancy protection. I don’t think anyone would disagree bare feels better, but it’s not always practical if ones are wanting many frequent sexual encounters with ones they don’t know very well. You need to save bare encounters for people you know their sexual history and that they are disease free so you can relax and enjoy yourself with them. Feel their cum shoot inside of you and fill you up with their seed and their essence as it should be.

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Loss Of Control

Posted on October 29, 2012 by Sharon

Do you like giving your partner control over your sexual pleasure? It can be fun to let another control your orgasms, when and where and how many you will be having. A sex toy some enjoy for this purpose is the remote controlled vibrating egg.

I recall one man I used to talk to told me how he and his girlfriend put the egg inside of her before going out shopping and he had the remote control for it in his pocket. He would jolt her as they were walking around shopping and how when she couldn’t take it anymore she was leaning against a wall and people were staring at her as she came and some of them thought she was unwell the way she was groaning, but of course they had no idea she was in the throes of orgasm!

He was laughing as he told me how amusing it was and how she had no control whatsoever over the situation. It sounded like fun honestly. Tease and denial is big for a few clients of mine, they like to be brought to the brink and then denied, over and over again. Using a toy in such a manner is an excellent way to control their orgasm.

Tying someone up would also allow you to tease someone to a degree they might not be able to tolerate otherwise. Blindfolding would heighten things even more. The loss of senses as well as control could be a very heady experience. There must be a level of trust to engage in such games with another person and know that they won’t leave you tied up or something similar.

 

 

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