World of Sexual Pleasures

Erotica

Posted on September 17, 2012 by Sharon

A pleasure for many that are alone masturbating or sharing with a partner is written erotica. It can help spice up many a masturbatory experience. Ones into cyber sex are also looking to the written word from another person to get them off.

Erotic stories can really get the juices flowing. Many think ladies are not as into erotica as men might be, but I think it’s more women into it than men. Look at the romance novels. Not all are graphic, but many are extremely so. I was quite into romance novels in my teens and twenties and trust me, they can be plenty graphic and inspire many lustful thoughts.

I recall in my childhood my introduction to sexuality was pretty much from reading my mom’s hidden Nancy Friday books afterschool she had hidden away. For those of you not familiar with them, I highly suggest you look them up.

Many couples enjoy reading erotic fiction to one another to help get things started, and there are a number of sites online where users submit their original erotic fiction and share it with the world. The sites are widely used by horny people looking to spice up their masturbation.

Words can paint a picture and get images swirling in your mind as you envision the events unfolding in your mind that are spelled out on the page. It’s like you have a movie playing in your head, a very erotic and naughty movie! So enjoy the poetic descriptions of lust on the page before you.

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Erotic Shaving

Posted on September 10, 2012 by Sharon

How much do you trust your lover? Would you trust them with a razor next to your most sensitive spots? Does instilling that kind of trust arouse you, or frighten you?

Erotic shaving can be a very intimate part of a couples lovemaking. I consider shaving a chore to be gotten over with as fast as possible. I can’t imagine bothering a lover to assist you with grooming needs, but to many, it can be an extremely arousing experience that is showing how much you trust them by letting them come at your privates with a sharp razor blade. Or maybe an electric razor would be a safer choice, it’s what I use, no chance of cutting with that one. But it also doesn’t lend itself to the type of trust required for an erotic shaving experience.

Some couples will have an entire shaving ritual surrounding their pre-lovemaking, bringing a bowl of water, a towel, a razor and soap or shaving foam to bed and then letting your lover make you all smooth and pretty, usually with a round of oral sex right afterwards to savor the smooth skin.

One of my phone sex partners that had me watch him on cam, I wasn’t too pleased with his hairy appearance and mentioned shaving, and he said he’d envisioned me shaving him before we would make love together. I was touched at his words, the thought of him trusting me to do that to him. Would be very arousing, I am sure if ever we were to meet.

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Handjob Heaven

Posted on September 3, 2012 by Sharon

A sexual pleasure pretty well all enjoy is a good handjob, man or woman. Some I talk to are not able to cum from intercourse alone, and it has to be by hand to get them off.

Of course most of us learned about what an orgasm is like by masturbating ourselves and knowing what feels good to us, so a hand job by another person is usually our first introduction to sex. Many a young girl might not be willing or ready to give herself fully to her first boyfriend, but chances are good she’s willing to give him a handjob, that’s pretty well the first step. Then oral, then intercourse, but if the people involved are young enough, they may not be ready for a full fledged sexual relationship, so it may stay in handjob territory for a while.

It’s pretty innocent and feels good and different having someone else touch you in a way you are only used to touching yourself. The hand can have a firmer grip and touch than any blow job or intercourse, and indeed some men that have not had much experience with women are so used to their own hand they find they are unable to cum any other way than by hand. Their own or that of their partner.

Using our hands on another person to give them pleasure is a nice experience, and often in massage parlors clients expect a “Happy ending” to their massage, since it feels so good getting their bodies rubbed down, they want a nice orgasm to cap things off. Seems a natural way to end a massage.

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Fruit Fuckers

Posted on August 27, 2012 by Sharon

Most of us have seen American Pie and the antics of the young man and his exploits with the apple pie. Well, it’s not just a silly thing in a movie, there are indeed ones out there making their masturbation more interesting with foodstuffs. I don’t really recommend it for the ladies due to the high chance of getting a yeast infection, but with guys that doesn’t seem to be too much of a concern.

A guy the other day shared with me how he hollowed out a cucumber and warmed it up and fucked it, and how it was a blow job substitution of sorts in its sensations. I have certainly heard of ones assaulting melons with their members and giving them a good go. While it is a waste of food, I can in fact see the slippery nature of fruit flesh, and the firm rind giving a male a sensation that would be pleasurable. Sounds ridiculous, but I can imagine it feeling nice in a way.

Not all are sticking cucumbers up their ass, one told me once he had an apple up his ass. What do I say to such a statement? I mentioned it to someone else and he replied, “Better not eat the pies at his house!” I laughed and agreed. I’ve had guys call with carrots up their ass, see, that concerns me. What if it broke? How to get it out? That could prove beyond embarrassing to seek medical attention for that. Best to use toys intended for that purpose rather than chance it. And you’ve also got pesticides to consider as well.

Some married guys have been afraid of toys getting discovered, so they go the fruit and veggies route. One of these days no doubt the veggie will break and they will have some ‘splainin to do!

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Pin Me Down, Baby!

Posted on August 20, 2012 by Sharon

There are few greater pleasures than missionary position sex. The intimacy and level of closeness between two people cannot really be equaled in other positions. The full body contact and eye contact is so special in this position.

Being able to wrap your arms and legs around one another and be so close feels so wonderful, and there’s no other position I’d rather be in for lovemaking. Boring to some, lacking in creativity to others, but to me a classic that cannot be rivaled by any other. Sadly, on calls, it’s around the least popular position guys mention to me. They seem only interested in sex, not a really close connection with another person. The few guys that do mention this position seem to be into the girlfriend experience types of calls and they are seeking more of a connection. Not just a quick jerk off call, kind of an online girlfriend.

Whenever I picture being with someone in a fantasy, it’s always missionary position I picture having them in, them pinning me down. Call me boring….I just love the idea of the man being on top and being underneath them, old fashioned I guess, but it’s what turns me on more than anything, feeling their weight on top of me, their body heat, their breath on my neck, their voice in my ear. Running my fingers through their hair, wrapping my legs around them and pulling them deeper inside with every thrust. Plus, it’s the one on top that does most of the work, so I can relax a bit and not work so hard! Sounds good to me!