How much do you trust your lover? Would you trust them with a razor next to your most sensitive spots? Does instilling that kind of trust arouse you, or frighten you?
Erotic shaving can be a very intimate part of a couples lovemaking. I consider shaving a chore to be gotten over with as fast as possible. I can’t imagine bothering a lover to assist you with grooming needs, but to many, it can be an extremely arousing experience that is showing how much you trust them by letting them come at your privates with a sharp razor blade. Or maybe an electric razor would be a safer choice, it’s what I use, no chance of cutting with that one. But it also doesn’t lend itself to the type of trust required for an erotic shaving experience.
Some couples will have an entire shaving ritual surrounding their pre-lovemaking, bringing a bowl of water, a towel, a razor and soap or shaving foam to bed and then letting your lover make you all smooth and pretty, usually with a round of oral sex right afterwards to savor the smooth skin.
One of my phone sex partners that had me watch him on cam, I wasn’t too pleased with his hairy appearance and mentioned shaving, and he said he’d envisioned me shaving him before we would make love together. I was touched at his words, the thought of him trusting me to do that to him. Would be very arousing, I am sure if ever we were to meet.