One of the first things you might start with someone before full on sex is mutual masturbation, exciting, but safe and no commitment. Showing off to a potential future partner, if you shave, make sure you’re nicely groomed so they can see all your naughty bits as well as possible, make yourself look nice, even if they might not be reaching over and touching you just yet.
Laying on the bed next to one another, caressing yourselves, hearing that wetness squishy noise from the pussy, and that pumping the dick noise if you’re the guy, also wet with your precum. Some love that noise and are very turned on by it, maybe kissing each other as you touch yourselves and you feel the passion build as you are so excited to have that orgasm in the presence of another person. It’s always a pressure to have another person give you an orgasm, can they do it, is there the chance you might not be able to cum? If you are masturbating yourself and not depending on the other person for that orgasm, the chances are greater you will be able to cum.
Looking down and seeing them stroke themselves, teasing their pussy or cock and watching that close that way, partaking in their pleasure and your own. I’d think it hard to stop when you were that close to someone you liked not to reach over and start touching them and it quickly lead to more intimate pleasures, but for some it can be a start to more down the road, mutual masturbation can be quite fun indeed, so much better than alone.
