If things in the bedroom are lukewarm instead of red hot, you may look to get things kicked up a notch with a libido enhancer. For thousands of years ones have been searching for the elusive perfect potion to make us even hornier. Or usually for our mates to get hornier, since it’s often a mate with a low sex drive that we want to get going in the bedroom. Sadly as we age hormones lessen and we just are not as randy in our later years as in our teens. Would be kind of scary if grandpa was sporting a woody half the time like a teenage boy, though!
Nature makes us horniest during our childbearing years so we have a higher chance of procreating, but most times people are looking for sex and to feel horny, child making has nothing to do with it. Spanish fly isn’t a fly, it’s the ground up wings of a beetle that when consumed irritate the genitals and engorge them with blood the same way as if you were sexually aroused. Too much though, and you are easily poisoned, countless people have died from ingesting this, and it’s now illegal in many countries, but there are “natural versions” of it out there that claim to have the same effects without the whole take too much and you’ll die aspect to it.
Blood flow, or lack of it, seems to be a big factor here. Ones that exercise regularly often also have better sex lives, likely not a coincidence that their blood flow would be better than a sedentary person. There are many herbal libido enhancers, creams applied topically that are supposed to increase blood flow, pumps that you place over your genitals and use suction to manually bring blood to the area, all kinds of things to try if nature is letting you down. Much is pure quackery, but some certainly cannot hurt to try.
