Let’s Tie That Sucker Up!

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As pleasures go, it seems odd to include something that is in fact painful, but to some pain is indeed pleasure. Ones into BDSM and cock and ball torture do love to be in fact hurt and tortured. Many that call are into mild forms of this, say tightly tying up their cock and balls to restrict blood flow to the cock and balls. It gives them harder erections, this is what cock rings do as well. They trap blood to keep the penis engorged longer and harder than it would be otherwise.

Cock rings are the oldest sex toy on earth, ones in ancient times used leather strips and cords to do it. Not all guys are going to have a raging erection like an 18 year old forever, as you get older you need help, and even with help, a 65 yr old, cock ring or not won’t be sporting a woody like a teenager. Sad to say, but that’s the way it is.

I can think of many clients that call with things tied around their bits. Many would leave it tied until just the exact minute of orgasm and then untie it so they would spurt as completely as they could. They say it makes them cum a lot harder to do that, so there’s a much greater release that way. I don’t think women get any benefits to tying up our parts this way, but at least we know why some of the guys do, to intensify it.

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Circle Jerks

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A pleasure for some naughty boys when they are younger, and even when older, as there are some groups that meet for these is a circle jerk. A few guys will meet and masturbate together, usually while watching porn. Honestly, if there’s one thing I like about men it’s their upfrontness when it comes to masturbation. None of this lying and denying like most girls. Their “Ya know what, ya I play with my dick!” attitude is refreshing to me.

I can think the whole time I grew up being terrified of getting caught, or having anyone know. I just don’t think guys are as worried about that, it’s just taken for granted that boys will be boys. It’s too bad girls were not as free to be expected to explore the same. I don’t think many slumber parties have circles of masturbating girls, the same way a group of guys might. On various adult sex forums I’m on I’ve seen posting by men looking for other local men to get together and masturbate with. No touching invited, just to do it in the same room.

I can see it would heighten arousal for both, or however many people might be present and participating. The naughtiness, the rubbing sounds, the heavy breathing, all quite arousing for all involved. Even if you’re not touching them or them touching you, just the proximity of them doing the same thing would be very naughty, yet safe. It’s too bad everyone doesn’t feel that comfortable to enjoy themselves and relax in front of another person. It would sure add a whole new level to your friendships!

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Look At Me!

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A pleasure for some is a shock for ones on the receiving end, exhibitionism. They love to shock and show off to anyone that might be around. Some do this in the form of showing off their genitals, others like to have sex in public places and have people see them in their intimate moments. Sex on a balcony, in a park, in a car not parked far away, places where others can easily walk by and see what they are doing.

One man told me a fantasy of his where he imagined having sex in a park and a woman was walking her dog, the dog got loose and as she’s looking for the dog, she stumbles upon him and his partner going at it and she stops and begins to masturbate as she’s watching them. Of course they see her and invite her to join them and it becomes a threesome right there in the park as who knows who else might then wander on by and see the three of them.

Sex outdoors seems to be of great interest to the British I have noticed. Many that have mentioned this fantasy in one form or another seem to be British. That’s not to say non British people don’t have fantasies about getting it on outdoors and exhibitionism as well, they certainly do, but more of them seem to be British, not sure what it is about British culture that has this so ingrained in the nations psyche. I have indeed noticed it though!

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What Is In A Name?

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I just had a conversation with a nice, older Scottish man and like most UK guys, he refers to pussy as “fanny”, which to north Americans of course means the opposite, ass. So many like particular words used in their sexual conversations, it made me think of the various things guys like to refer things as. I have found black guys almost without exception prefer the word dick to cock, not sure why, but several have pointed this out to me, most white guys prefer cock to dick.

Some guys have even odder names for their male appendages, one British client would only have his cock referred to as his “Willie”, if I slipped I was admonished. One client of mine only wants it called his “pickle”. Some want pee pee, which seems so ridiculous to me, one calls it his “little white worm”, as he has a very small cock. Odd how certain words turn us on above all others and get us going. Others that tend to like the medical type stuff like penis, which sounds so clinical to me. Cocks seem to have more word variations than pussies do.

Pussy, cunt, vagina, coochie, not many more. I guess certain words have powers over us and turn us on more than others and they can have roots to way back in our childhood, when first we heard those words and understood their meaning. The actual proper medical terms are not sexy and do not arouse most people that hear them.

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Wet ‘N Wild

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What could be more natural for a girl than to have some bath time fun with herself? It’s no mistake that a good percentage of vibrators and other sex toys are now made waterproof, since the manufactures know that people do indeed like to masturbate in the tub and shower.

This is often the place as children where we discover masturbation in the first place. A book from my youth, “Deenie”, by Judy Blume mentions the lead character masturbating in the bath and worrying if it’s normal, or ok to be doing it. So many, most, parents do not bring up the subject with their kids since it’s embarrassing, or they don’t like to think of their children as sexual beings in any way. I cannot even count the number of guys I have talked to that even now, if they have roommates or live at home still, the only place they have real, true privacy, but for very small windows of time and the only place they ever had to masturbate growing up was in the shower.

Premature ejaculation has its roots in this sort of furtive behavior, and it’s a shame ones have life long issues due to lack of privacy situations like this. Women and bath time fun can be with fingers, the ever popular shower massager that gives wonderful clit stimulation when aimed right on it. Younger kids don’t usually have access to sex toys, so the water massager is something they do have access to and can enjoy, but the ever present fear of getting caught is present. Even ones without shower massagers, many get pleasure from letting the water run directly over their clits. I never found it was a strong enough stream of water to get me off, but for many it’s more than enough.

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