Tight As A Drum

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Usually when we hear “Does size matter”, we think of guys and too small cocks, which is of great concern to many of them and their partners. However size is often a concern to women as well, ones that have given birth and are concerned about having too loose a vagina to properly grip their partners during sex. I had an acquaintance that was obsessed with her vaginal size after having two kids.

She would tireless research vaginal rejuvenation procedures online and wonder how she’d pay for this critical surgery she felt was a must have for herself. That coupled with her “over wetness issue”, lord the things she would share…Yikes! She was convinced these two things combined were just dreadful for her sexually. Women that do practice Kegel exercises do have tighter muscles than those that don’t, that’s a fact, but many are unsure how to do them properly. There’s many devices out there to aid you in doing them properly. If it is truly a concern, then learn to do them and do them until you can lift up filled pop bottles with your pussy!

I’ve never had a child, nor will I, but I think a C section is the best possible answer, you avoid this loose pussy issue entirely, you won’t have the same kind of bladder leakage in later years many that have given birth will, it seems a lot more sensible to me all around. Men would I think be reluctant to mention to their partners they didn’t feel as tight as they once did for fear of hurting their feelings, even if they were asked point blank. The exercises seem like a good step to take if there’s any question in your mind as to your tightness. Tight is a good thing. So if after birth your partner is asking for anal like never before, that may be a sign poor pussy just isn’t what she used to be.

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Smooth Skin For Soft Lovin’

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Now an undeniable pleasure for both sexes is smooth skin. No one wants to go to bed with someone with skin like an alligator. I feel bad for people with skin conditions, since it not only affects their self esteem with people seeing it, but they would be reluctant to let anyone close to them as well. Even though something might not be contagious, not many are going to wish to get intimate with someone with a raging case of eczema or something similar.

Rough skin can be just the result of too much bathing and not enough moisturizing. I’d rather slather on lotion than bathe less often, so it’s not really a concern of mine, but can be for some. Another issue both sexes face is razor burn from their partners. Men might look good with a couple days worth of scruff on their faces, but that can leave the more sensitive ladies skin with a rash or razor burn. Same goes for men with ladies that shave their pubic hair off. It can leave loverboy with an irritated face.

Shaving daily will keep everything smooth and lovely, just use the right products and techniques when you do, or you’ll be fighting more irritation again. Lovely, smooth skin feels so sexy and soft, how can that not be a turn on? Some men might look ok with facial hair, but ask their partners how their face feels after a couple of hours of kissing their bearded partner. I guess you just have to determine what works for you and your partner. Never be afraid to ask them to shave. Worse they can say is no.

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Hand Job Heaven

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Many guys do love the basic hand job. They’ve been tugging on their own cocks for a lifetime, now to lay back and let someone else do the tugging for a change. It’s usually the very first thing after kissing that a guy will experience from a girl sexually speaking, the hand is the first thing they will usually feel, before a mouth or a pussy.

Some do love it more than anything else it seems. A hand after all can grip a lot harder than any pussy can, you can make different sensations depending on your grip and stroke and pace. If a girl isn’t in the mood to fuck, or even feeling charitable enough for a blow job, it’s not that big of a deal to give a guy a hand job, doesn’t take much effort at all, really. I well recall a call I did right after I started doing calls and it was a hard call, one of the most repetitious ones I have ever done. For 20 solid minutes, all this guy wanted was talk of a hand job, not one other thing, just that. So it was basically “stroke it” hundreds of times, I thought I’d go mental, but he seemed pleased with the ultra repetitious call. Surprisingly some do like that over and over of the same few sentences even though it’s like Chinese water torture for the ones doing it!

I have heard of some guys that do not like blow jobs, they simply cannot cum from them, but a hand job, they can. Some sadly are so used to their own touch that another person can’t make them cum though and once a guy told me that a girl was giving him a hand job and he had to take over to finish, as he just couldn’t cum from her touch. Must have made her feel not great…

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Valentine’s Day Phone Sex And Masturbation

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Not all of us are lucky enough to have a sexual partner or life partner, spouse, girlfriend, what have you. And wouldn’t you know, this week is Valentine’s Day again. So what’s a lonely guy to do that would like a bit of love and affection on this day of the year? Well he can call and get some phone sex! Even plenty of guys in relationships have a cold woman that has shut down sexually and they won’t get anything from her in the way of love or affection.

Whether it’s a 10 minute call, or an hour long call for a bit of pillow talk after you cum, calling a phone sex operator for some fun is a much more enjoyable way to masturbate than alone. It’s always nice to share your orgasm with someone and cum for them and have them talk to you. Even ones that don’t wish to do a lot of talking can just lay back and allow the phone sex operator of their choice to entertain them as they stroke their cock and have a nice orgasm. What could be a safer thing to do? It’s a lot safer than hiring an escort, it’s a lot cheaper than taking a girl out on a date you may not get lucky with anyway.

It’s a guaranteed orgasm, unless you’re too drunk to cum, or have orgasm issues! Phone sex is a fun, little treat for yourself that will in many cases be the highlight of your day. I’ve got one client that says I’m the highlight of his week, his calls to me. He’s a lonely soul, and I know there’s many in the same boat. So if you haven’t tried it before, give a call to the operator of your choice and see if you don’t have a lot more fun masturbating than doing it alone this Valentine’s Day!

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Pucker Up, Baby!

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An unequaled pleasure that usually begins the evening of passionate lovemaking is kissing. So simple, something people don’t mind even if their kids are doing it. So innocent. It used to be “Do you kiss on a first date?”, now it’s do you fuck on a first date…I think we’d be better off if people did stop at the kiss for the first date and let things build, where’s the build up if everything is already laid out on the table at the end of the first date? What’s left to look forward to, gee does she do anal on the second???

It was a simpler time, a more innocent time than we have today, with porn splashed all over the internet for everyone old enough to click a computer keyboard to see. A kiss in and of itself was something to look forward to and savor, not to be rushed over to get to “the good stuff”. It WAS the good stuff, for a while anyway until things got more serious. Some people are just not well practiced at it and don’t understand the true art of what goes into a perfect kiss.

I’ve always noticed some actors always looked so good at it and others just didn’t seem natural at it, makes you wonder if they just had bad teachers at it, or if they’d be bad no matter who they were paired up with. Who’s to say a “perfect kiss” has to be on the mouth anyway? *Blush*, there’s certainly other spots a kiss is most welcome, isn’t there now?

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