World of Sexual Pleasures

What We Can Learn From Porn

Posted on August 5, 2013 by Sharon

The new, humorous video below shows the differences between real and sex and porn sex, which got me thinking. We actually can learn something from porn. I mean, obviously they are educational if nothing else. Porn can be robotic and mechanical and with no emotions. I always thought if you could get real actors to just carry on during a love scene, that would be the most erotic thing, but of course A list actors are not about to have real sex on screen, and as we all know, porn stars are not going to be winning any awards for their huge acting abilities.

People in porn are well groomed. Most real life people are not. Think though, if your junk was going to be captured for eternity and possibly seen by untold millions, you might be a bit more diligent about what’s going on down there, correct? If you are unfortunate enough to have to take public transportation, most of the people don’t even look like they are clean. Ones that even still have teeth, lord knows when the last time was when they were to a dentist or brushed them, do you think these ungroomed greasy haired masses are shaving off their pubes or doing anal bleaching? Kinda doubt it……

Ones are in porn because they can last a long time, or have a bigger than average cock, or in some way exceed the average sexual standards. It’s like everyone can run, but how many get to go to the Olympics for it? Same thing, most people have sex, but how many do it so well others are going to pay to see it. So if you’re on display, you’re going to be doing it better than the average person would, or you wouldn’t be there in the first place.

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Three’s Company

Posted on July 29, 2013 by Sharon

When you mention a threesome, you likely think a guy wants a threesome with two girls, and make no mistake, many guys do fantasize about this scenario for sure. One I talked with that had done a threesome with two girls said while it was of course enjoyable, it was stressful to have that pressure to satisfy two women. Many men can’t totally please one, two is even more of a concern. As is stamina.

However so many men I talk to have desires to be in a threesome with another guy. They want to know if would excite me to see them with another guy, how I would guide or instruct them with each other. How I would have them please me together, to feel both of them working on me at the same time doing their best to please me and drive me wild together. I think it would be very interesting to have not one but two doing their best to make me cum over and over and making it their goal to exhaust me with passion.

For many it also seems to make it “less gay” for them to explore another man in the presence of a woman. Many wish to suck cock and have me be the one pushing it, making them less responsible for pursuing it if I am the one pushing it to happen. They want it, but they don’t want to want it, and by my asking them and telling them how much it turns me on, it takes away that the seed of desire is in fact in their own mind.

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Guided Masturbation

Posted on July 22, 2013 by Sharon

One thing that has always baffled me is guys that like guided masturbation, yet it’s fairly popular. No one would be telling me how to touch myself, I will do it how and when and where I see fit, yet some guys like to be told how fast, how hard, how whatever. Guys are strange creatures to be sure. It’s not just submissive ones, it’s regular ones as well, I don’t think the dominant guys are into it, but may be on occasion, not quite sure.

So few dominant guys call at all, most seem to be submissive by nature, and the guided masturbation is just yet another way they are allowing someone to exert further control over them. Many are into the tease and denial aspect as well that tends to go hand in hand, or should I say cocky in hand with it. I will never forget the 20 minute call I had once that was nothing but talk of a handjob, I don’t know how I got through it, up and down…..for 20 minutes, it’s all he wanted and I thought I’d go bonkers from the repetition, yet they were happy with it, so that’s all that matters.

Many love to be told right from the time they have their clothes off how to touch, stroke, tease, caress, every little movement, how to carry it out. How to apply their lube, how much, how fast, how slow. I guess as long as there’s guys jerking off, there will be someone to tell them how to do it, and they will love it.

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The History Of Personal Lubes

Posted on July 15, 2013 by Sharon

We are so lucky to have all the modern conveniences, indoor plumbing, electricity, personal lubricants. Say what? Yes, personal lubricants. Now you can just get a bottle at the drug store or supermarket and think nothing of it, but think before lubes were widely available, less than 100 years, what people used. Saliva, animal fat drippings from cooking, and in ancient times, olive oil. Brothels and many that could afford it all had vases of olive oil in their bedrooms for this use.

Lubes make for a much smoother sexual ride, and wet sex is always the best sex. Many women just do not produce enough, no matter how mentally aroused they may be, so a supplementary one is often needed. Many times it also helps to get things started before your own juices will kick in. I used to swear by old KY, but since have found one I like better, Wet Synergy original, works great, not gummy, plenty slippery. Whether with a sexual partner or enjoying yourself alone, a personal lubricant can make things a whole lot more enjoyable.

People often use things not at all suited for the purposes they are trying to use them for, and infections can result. It really is best to get a sexual lube and not try your hand with butter or hair conditioner or something. I have used aloe gel in the past and that worked ok, but not sure how advisable that is. There was a funny scene in one of the “American Pie” movies where the male lead grabs what he think is lube, but it turns out is quick drying glue and he has to go to the hospital to have them unglue his hand from his cock. Now THAT would be embarrassing!

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Toys For Men

Posted on July 8, 2013 by Sharon

Many times when we hear of sex toys, we automatically think of vibrators for women. Women are the primary buyers of sex toys after all. However there are more and more sex toys out there just for men. Lots of men greatly enjoy prostate stimulation and there are countless varieties out there of butt plugs, vibrating and not and of various sizes. There are tons of masturbators out there like Fleshlights and even full sized life like love dolls. Some are so real looking, you’d give them a second glance.

Many have the price tags to go with them, with top of the line life sized love dolls that are custom ordered and styled at over $10,000 and above. I’d be pretty creeped out if I saw any guy of mine with one of them, but there is obviously a market for them, someone is buying them even at that great price. Many online sex shops often have over 5000 products, the numbers of things out there for men and women is staggering, you often wonder who comes up with these items. There is certainly something out there for every taste and proclivity.

A number of callers have called using Fleshlights and a few with pocket pussies and they seem to greatly enjoy them, I guess if they don’t have a real pussy at their disposal, a Fleshlight even at around $100 is cheaper than an average date, so they figure the Fleshlight is a better investment that will last more than 4 hours the average date of dinner and a movie would, so even though toys can be pricy, still cheaper in many cases than a date. The 10K love doll not so much, so that’s for the real fans and or ones that can’t get a real girl, but you could get an escort a number of times, I’d think that better than a doll.