World of Sexual Pleasures

Happy Valentine’s Day!

Posted on February 11, 2013 by Sharon

Valentine’s Day is upon us yet again. There’s many different things you can do to make it a day filled with pleasure for you and your mate. If you like going out to eat, you can have a nice dinner out on the town. Most people like to go out for such a special occasion rather than be at home slaving away in front of the stove. A beautiful dinner and dessert and a couple of bottles of wine goes a long way to add to a romantic evening.

A thoughtful man will get some flowers and candy and the extra lucky girl might even get some jewelry or tickets to some live theater. Maybe when you get back home a saucy gift bag filled with some sexy lingerie and some sex toys and candles will fit the bill. You could even go all out and hire a masseuse for the two of you to come over and give you both sensual massages to get you all aroused and in the mood. Once they leave, oh boy, you can slip and slide all over each other, making sweet, sensual love all night long.

Yes, it would be nice to go away for an expensive weekend getaway, but that’s not always in the budget and a romantic evening at home can be more than satisfying. Some couples may try and make everyday Valentine’s Day, but many get wrapped up in work and busy lives and simply don’t take the proper time for one another. To have an actual day set aside to celebrate love and romance makes us take notice and set “special time” aside to cherish each other. If the budget allows, go all out, if not, a nice special dinner at home can still be a wonderful prelude to hot, steamy sex.

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Ice Ice Baby

Posted on February 4, 2013 by Sharon

Ice ice baby….believe it or not, some people use ice when they masturbate. Some men have been know to actually insert ice cubes up their ass as they masturbate. Some women have been known to have some crushed ice cubes in their mouths when they give a blow job to a guy and he can feel the cold of the ice and the heat of her mouth. I’d kind of think the cold would lead to “shrinkage”, but if he likes it…

I have known certain Mistress’s to tell their slaves to insert ice cubes up their ass. Doesn’t sound too pleasant to me, but I’m convinced every weird thing to do out there has its fans and it will bring pleasure to someone, somewhere. It’s not going to hurt you, unless the edges of the ice cubes are sharp or something like that. You could easily run them under warm water ahead of time to smooth out the edges so as not to inflict any harm upon yourself. Some have described the act of masturbating with ice inserted into their anus as exquisite.

So if the tinkle of ice cubes in a glass drives you wild thinking of all the naughty things you can also do with that ice, than by all means, have a go at it and enjoy yourself. Some women no doubt would insert ice cubes into their pussies as well, just have to see I guess and see if it’s a turn on for you.

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As Time Goes By

Posted on January 28, 2013 by Sharon

It goes without saying that sex with a partner and masturbation are sexual pleasures. Some don’t like to think of older people continuing to enjoy their sexuality as they get older, but a great many people in their senior years continue to enjoy themselves in this manner. No, they may not look as good as they did when they were 25, but hey, we can all turn out the lights, all cats look grey in the dark as they say.

My oldest client on the phone was 94. I was dumbfounded when he told me. He had a private nurse and she would pass him the phone and leave the room. I don’t know if he was able to cum or not, I tend to think not, he mentioned he got half hard and the conversations were quite funny. He’d be telling me about flying planes in World War 2 in one sentence, and in the next asking me if my pussy was shaved or how old I was when I gave my first blow job. This regular conversation that was randomly peppered with sexual questions, it was funny.

People that are older often have more time, are not as rushed, no worries of little kids interrupting, fears of pregnancy are long behind. Yet it can take longer for bodies to respond. Men may need pills to help with erectile dysfunction, women may need estrogen cream for lack of lubrication, there are things that need a helping hand due to getting older, but sex can be enjoyable until the end of our lives. Yes, it’s not the most pleasant thing to visualize. Who wants to picture saggy, wrinkled, untoned bodies…..but let’s focus on the pleasure we have had extending the rest of our lives.

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Beasty Toys

Posted on January 21, 2013 by Sharon

There’s a lot of different sex toys out there and lot of different desires to go with them. For ones that have a bit more of an extreme taste, there are dildos out there that have been made in the shape of animal penises. Maybe these users of these products have an interest in bestiality but are a bit too afraid to cross that line into real, so they can get these toys that are the next best thing. Or perhaps for some of the users they have had real, but at the present they don’t actually have old Rover around for whatever reason, or maybe Rover has a headache and isn’t in the mood…..

There are dildos available from every animal from dogs, horses, wolves, even replicas of small whales, etc. Now one might easily access a dog, but a wolf would likely tear your throat out, and a whale? I doubt you’d be getting that close to Shamu anytime soon! Toys like this are a not as disturbing as real life encounter might be, but they still make you wonder…

Many zooplhiles that really do love beast are out there, but keep their fetish a tightly held secret, not only because it’s against the law most places, but because it’s heavily judged by others. Unless they get caught live in the act with an animal in a compromising position, they aren’t likely to get caught, the animals aren’t going to say anything. Or if they perhaps come down with some infection that is a result of sexual contact with animals, their Dr. would indeed know about what they’d been getting up to.

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Let’s Wait

Posted on January 14, 2013 by Sharon

A sexual pleasure for many obviously is oral sex, but a disturbing trend has come to light of late. I not only read about it in a study, but a guy I chat with made mention of the same thing. He said how much he loved getting his cocked sucked, yet he hardly ever licked pussy. I asked why, he said he never got asked, yet he happily accepted. Talk about a double standard. So it’s OK for girls to give out blow jobs left and right apparently, but god forbid they get the same pleasure in kind.

He said that was pretty much just reserved for girlfriends, not casual girls, but yet him getting blow jobs is perfectly OK, for girls to give him a casual encounter where he knows there’s little chance of him seeing them again. I was pretty disgusted, honestly. It’s not only a double standard, but degrading to women that they are viewed as only givers of man’s pleasure and not expected to get any pleasure in return. Granted he said he’d not been asked to reciprocate, which also makes me wonder why.

Why would a girl be willing to so easily give that out, and not expect the same in kind? Does this not speak of a lack of self respect? They are allowing themselves to be used and seem totally fine with it. I don’t understand this. Sex seems to have become like a sport, not as an extension of feelings and love. No longer is it viewed as something special to share with your partner. Hookups and casual sex seem the order of the day for many. If both are agreeable, I guess there is not an issue, but I just think a lack of self respect is present.

A man I talked to, several actually I have asked, all of them said if a woman gave herself too easily their first thought was, how many others has she given herself to? One said it’s like a prostitute, no chance of a relationship with one that gives in too quickly. I have heard that from ones in their 20’s and ones in their 50’s, it still holds true. It can be difficult when you both want to, you figure what is there to wait for if you both want it? I have heard from men that said if a woman didn’t sleep with them by the third date, they wouldn’t see them anymore. Another said he’d not have a relationship with a girl if she gave in before the sixth date, you can’t seem to win. Waiting never killed anyone.