New Toy

Posted on July 16, 2012 by Sharon

Here’s a new sex toy for you, boys. A caller told me today he was using this toy called a Solo Flesh . So after our call, I looked up the website the toy was on, it does look interesting. This poor guy is in the military and hasn’t had a real girlfriend in a few years, so it’s pretty much just him and his hand, this toy seems to have helped him some with his masturbation, as he said it feels very lifelike, since it gets filled up with the warm water and all.

I’ve had guys call using a Fleshlight before, that is pretty common, it’s the number one selling male sex toy, but this thing that he had with the warmth of the water, and the lube, he said it’s pretty close to a real feeling experience. I’ll take his word for it. So listening to my voice talk naughty to him and using his toy that felt like he was fucking a real live girl, I guess that is about as good as it’s going to get for the poor fellow for a while.

I’m glad to help the boys that call, especially servicemen, as they are serving their country and have so little in the way of comforts, and many don’t want to cavort with the locals and possibly get some sexually transmitted disease, so I can understand the appeal of such an item for ones like that. I was joking with him saying it would be awkward when it’s time to come back home if customs saw that in his items! I made him laugh at such a thought of something like that being discovered.

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Masturbation Party

Posted on July 9, 2012 by Sharon

A sexual pleasure more males seem to have been a part of is a circle jerk. In a way I am envious that men are so much more accepting of their sexuality than most women. Their cocks are just out there, begging for attention right from the get go. A clit is hidden and it takes some poking around to find it.

Everyone knows it’s common for young guys to masturbate together, yet among girls it is much less common and certainly spoken about less overall.

At one place I used to take calls from, the clients were English, and it was common especially on a Friday or Saturday night to get a group of guys to call, they’d be laughing their heads off, half drunk and as soon as I heard there were a few people in the room, it was quite the amusing call. I’d say, “Oh are you having a masturbation party? I bet you’re wanking off your mate, aren’t you?” They’d laugh uproariously and say they were having a wank with some friends. Some would put me on speaker phone and I’d talk to them that way, or others would pass the phone around. They were often very fun calls, and I do miss them.

Usually it was just guys, but sometimes they were mixed parties and there were girls there as well. In most cases there was drinking going on and they seemed to all be having fun. I can’t fathom going to a “masturbation party” in my youth, but in today’s world they seem to be more common, and perhaps that’s a good thing. They are safer and certainly bring you closer to your friends! Porn on in the background, often toys available, booze flowing freely, sounds entertaining to be honest if you’re comfortable enough to be masturbating in a group environment.

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Let’s Sixty Nine……

Posted on July 2, 2012 by Sharon

A sexual pleasure for many is the 69 position. Giving and getting at the same time. You can have fun with your partner in many different positions and have to be fairly comfortable with someone to jump right into this position. I asked one of my chat guys what he loved about this position so much, and he said it’s the fact that they are feeling the same thing at the same time and how the more excited you get they get and it’s as if you’re feeding off each others excitement at the same time.

That’s a fair description I’d say. I’d rather just concentrate on my own pleasure then give them theirs, some do prefer taking turns than the doing at the same time. It is a wonderful thing to cum at the exact same moment as another person, that is a fantastic thing to share that at the same time. Does it seem selfish to just want to concentrate on myself at that time? I have some clients that say they love the position, others feel the same way, that they’d rather concentrate on themselves and then reciprocate.

Also if one partner is a lot larger than the other one, it can be a bit awkward. It just depends on the mindset and body types of the ones involved in it how well it will go over as a favorite sexual position. To me it doesn’t seem like the most ladylike position for sex, but then not many are concerned with how they appear at such a moment!

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Erotic Massage

Posted on June 25, 2012 by Sharon

A sexual pleasure for many is a nice, relaxing erotic massage. Imagine coming home all tensed up and so in need of relaxation and having a willing partner there with some massage oils or lotions willing to literally rub those cares away.  Oh yes.

Your skin being moisturized and caressed, your tired muscles having all the knots worked out of them. Sounds heavenly, doesn’t it?

And as many readers already know about, so many places do “under the table” happy endings massages. Most places wouldn’t have the nerve to advertise such a thing as they and their patrons would be getting in trouble, but happy ending massages do indeed occur.

What could be a better way to cap off a relaxing hour long rub down that to have a wonderful orgasm at the end? Sounds pretty relaxing. But perhaps we should focus on couples that are massaging one another here and not worry about the authorities getting in the way!

Warmed oils, some lit candles, some soft music in thebackground, a dimly lit room, all quite atmospheric in the setting the mood for an erotic massage. You could alternate who is the receiving partner each time you have such an evening.

One would be so relaxed, they wouldn’t really want to reciprocate in all likelihood after they had theirs, would be best to take turns each time. For them to start at the feet and work their way up, or at the neck and work their way down, a wonderful sensual, erotic delight awaits you at the hands of your lover…….

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Anal Beads

Posted on June 18, 2012 by Sharon

One of the many sex toys out there many find pleasure with is anal beads. They come in a variety of different shapes and sizes, from tiny ones, to walnut sized beads. Some are on a string, which is actually not the best type, as they cannot be properly sterilized. It’s best to use glass or silicone ones that can be properly washed between uses and especially if they are shared with another, it’s best really for each partner to have their own set.

Many find anal play very stimulating and anal beads are inserted before sex begins and usually withdrawn as climax is happening to further heighten sensations. The sphincter area is loaded with nerves that many find enjoyable to incorporate into their sex play. There are not only beads, but some shaped sort of like an anchor, the handle of course being there so removal is easy and the toy cannot become lodged inside. Think of the embarrassment if you couldn’t get them out and had to seek medical intervention, this would be very awkward, so always keep that in mind as you play with any toys. Make sure easy removal is possible of something before proceeding.

The toys should be well cleaned after every use and when inserted use generous amounts of lube. Dry toys and sex is never a good or comfortable thing. It’s not advisable to use jewelry beads for this purpose as they are not strong or meant for such a purpose, it’s always best to use something specifically designed for the intended purpose to be as safe as possible.

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