When most think of masturbation, they picture a man jerking off, but lots of ladies also love to stroke their pussies, and many men find watching a woman masturbate one of the hottest things going. Laying back and rubbing themselves as their man watches them is a god thing in many ways, it also teaches a man how we enjoy being touched. There’s nothing like being shown by example. Not all women enjoy being touched the same, what one loves another may hate, so it’s best to ask and even better yet be shown just how your lady enjoys being caressed.
Just like some men prefer a certain technique, so do women and while one may enjoy a firmer touch, it may cause another discomfort to be touched that roughly. It’s not a race, never pressure your woman to cum unless you know she likes it, as in being told. Otherwise it can seem like some men are egging on a racehorse and that is a total turn off. Let your lady guide the way and you will both be happy, once you have watched her a time or two you will surely know just the way to touch her pleasingly.
Lots of lube is always a good thing, get that pussy slick and wet and ready for playtime. Many women do not produce enough natural lubrication and are going to feel even better if things slip and slide as best they can. Some enjoy warming or cooling lubes for a different sensation that can tease the clit with their ingredients and make things even better than without. A woman that cums regularly is going to be more physically relaxed and calm, so the more orgasms the better.
