Gentle and romantic sex is wonderful, but sometimes rough sex can really rev up your engines as well. Especially when it’s a quickie. Some couples even go so far as to do rape roleplays and really get into it, pretending to be strangers and the man stalking the woman on the way home and then really rough sex in a semi public place, like a parking lot, or an alley, people get into all kinds of different scenarios. For some, spanking would be enough to satisfy their urges, maybe a bit of choking, or breast squeezing, nipple pinching.
Different people have different desires, so you’d better hope that your desires meet up with your partners, otherwise one of you will always be in a state of want and deprivation. Some women would have no part of any sort of rough sex, in which cases their partners might seek such interactions from escorts, since they know there’s not a hope in hell of wifey giving it to them. Some even like to be rough with themselves during solo acts of masturbation, like auto erotic asphyxiation, something that can be deadly if it goes incorrectly.
Rough sex can heighten things from the every day, hearts and flowers are lovely, but sometimes you just want a nice, hard fuck, and it’s ok if you both have a few scratches and bite marks when all is said and done. They can be your little badges of love. Scratch up your guys back a bit and see if he doesn’t like his little marks. Discussing things is always for the best, what one might consider rough, another might consider downright abusive. You don’t want to alienate your partner.