Tis better to give than receive…Lots of people are givers in the bedroom. There’s also ones that are selfish and only out for themselves. I guess a giver partner and a selfish partner pair would do well together, one is content to do a lot of giving, the other is perfectly happy to sit back and get all the attention.
None of us wants to think of or describe ourselves as selfish, but some are big enough to admit it-we prefer to get than give. Me Me Me. I will always recall with surprise yet couldn’t really deny it when a guy said to me once, “You’re very much about you.” Well…….I can’t exactly say there wasn’t truth to that. People’s life experiences do color the way they are in bed as well. If you have been an only child and had lots of time to yourself and were used to things being centered around you, does it really come as a shock that you also feel that way in the bedroom? Kinda makes sense really, and we have to make a concerted effort to not always be the focus of attention.
See a submissive partner would never dare say such a thing, they’d just be content to keep on giving and be grateful they were accepted to come along for the ride. I have had guys say and truly mean that the pleasure in it for them is giving me pleasure, I love that attitude, what can I say, it’s a selfish persons ideal response. Two selfish people will never do well together, two givers may do OK, but will always be vying for who is the most selfless giver of the two. I admit it. I am selfish, do I get points for honesty at least? Now, make me cum. If you do as well OK, but if not, as long as I do, that’s what matters, right?
