A Kiss Is Still A Kiss

What could be more of a sexual pleasure than kissing? Kissing usually leads to much more passionate sexual adventures, but in and of itself it is a wonderful experience.

Kissing can be as simple as a peck on the cheek, or a passionate, wet, juicy tongue twirling extravaganza that will lead to heavy breathing and wild lovemaking. It leads to other things quickly….Who among us doesn’t recall our first kiss and who it was with? Such nervousness, such intensity, such worries over our breath, is it ok, will I please them, will it go well, will they want to kiss me again?

Kissing is universal. Casual greeting kisses are more common in other cultures than North American ones, with men and women greeting each other with double cheek kisses, this just isn’t done here. North American males would be too afraid of someone calling them a fag! 

Between lovers, how divine it is. How many songs have been written about kissing or kisses, a lot. So many memorable movie kisses over the decades, I’m sure we can all think of our favorites easily.

In the movies, until the 70’s, there was not a lot of open mouth kissing going on, it was just considered too risqué. It’s always amusing in the older movies to see these tight, closed mouth kisses where the people are just not doing anything except holding their lips together, no passion, no movement, no deep tongue thrusts filled with passion. It can be very sexy to watch others kiss, and obviously even sexier to be a part of it yourself……

How To Kiss Someone Passionately (Dating Humor).

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Call Of The Wild

A pleasure to many men is a loud woman. And I don’t mean as in talking all the time. I mean loud when in the throes of ecstasy. Sex sounds can be very arousing. As enthusiastic as men may be, I think most women can hoot and holler a lot louder than any man.

If you’ve ever been at a hotel next to a “noisy couple” shall we say, who is it you hear, it’s usually the woman. I am proud to say I personally have been told by guys, they have “never heard louder”, and they love it. I usually have a bit of a sore throat after around three orgasms. After seven once, it was sore til the next day…*blushes*

After reading up on women’s sex noises, it has been determined by some to be a mating call to alert nearby males there’s a ready, willing, and able available female nearby ready for action. Basically inviting nearby males to the party.

I have also read that biologically speaking, when a woman orgasms and makes noise, it triggers the male to cums seconds afterwards. I have personally found this to be true many times. As soon as I start to cum and am loud, they do right after. When a woman orgasms, her uterus contracts, as soon as a man cums and he deposits sperm, her contracting uterus is basically sucking up the sperm with every contraction, making conception more possible than if she didn’t orgasm. It’s still possible of course, but it does increase the chances.

So sex noises do serve a purpose biologically, but most people are more concerned about the it turning them on factor. I don’t need a guy to be loud, I’m more into the breathing noises than actual orgasm noises, but for many guys, they love a loud woman……

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Aphrodisiacs

For many aphrodisiacs are a real sexual pleasure. Oysters, mandrake root, Spanish fly. All sorts of things and for all sorts of reasons. Look at the oyster here. There isn’t much to say, it clearly looks like a woman’s vagina. Aphrodisiacs were often chosen because they resembled either female or male genitalia and they were thought to enhance sexual desire and performance by the mere fact that they resembled the body parts that they do.

Now oysters do have a good amount of zinc in them, which is thought to increase libido. But not just the site of them, but the salty taste and smell of the sea can also be said to be similar to a woman’s intimate parts.

Oysters and mandrake root are not harming anyone, but sadly over the centuries many animals have been needlessly killed in the search for the most powerful aphrodisiacs. Ones have used everything from deer penises to bear gallbladders. Most are just in the mind of the one consuming them, it’s mainly the power of suggestion.

Sensual foods like chocolates, a common Valentine’s Day gift, are much safer and less cruel aphrodisiacs to try and see if they work. Many of these foods like chocolate do actually have chemical compounds in them that are similar to ones our bodies make when in love or aroused. But they are usually in such small amounts, it’s negligible that any real effect is gotten. Stick to the oysters, chocolates and herbal supplements. No harm there….

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Let It Snow, Let It Snow, Let It Snow!

Frosty would be horrified no doubt at this next little activity that some find a pleasure in called snowballing. Some call it snow kisses, a few variations here. A client first told me about this and I’d never heard of it. He told me it was when a woman, (or guy), gives you a blow job and then comes back up to you to share the cum in a kiss. The white of the cum being the “snow”.

Some guys are into licking their own cum to be sure, but to share it so intimately with the partner that just sucked you off, well, they get extra excited in these cases it seems. A nice, juicy French kiss with an added dose of love juice. I wouldn’t mind if a guy wanted to kiss me after going down on me, but then a woman, unless she squirts, doesn’t produce quite the same volume of stuff that a man does when she climaxes, and I dare say what she produces doesn’t taste as bad either.

But if ones are into it, by all means, bring on the snowballs. Some love that extra bit of intimacy with their partners that sharing juices will do for them. Kissing is very intimate and sensual and to share your cum with them can be a beautiful thing if everyone involved is gung ho for it.

So fill up every hole, every single orifice with every single drop of juice that you can, share and share alike. Slurp up those pussy juices, drink down that cum, swap spit and cum and every other kind of fluid that you choose. I won’t tell Frosty….

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We Call It The Clit

It’s about the tiniest body part, but boy does it create a big reaction. That body part is the clitoris, otherwise known as the clit. The pleasure it brings is not able to be verbalized. A veritable explosion of intense, exquisite pleasure. One that thankfully we can easily produce ourselves.

Sex researchers from Masters and Johnson to Kinsey have all discovered that when most women masturbate, they simply rub their clits, not many insert objects into their vaginas, the clit is where it’s at. Some women are toy girls, others only need their fingers to get off, they feel better than any toy to me. Others love water induced orgasms, they are nice once in a while as well. But even the toy girls usually use the vibrator on the clit, and the stream of water from water induced ones is also aimed at, you guessed it, the clit.

Biologically, the clit serves no purpose at all. It is not required for any reproductive function, it serves no purpose other than pleasure. All mammals have them, and even female dolphins have been observed stimulating their clitorises. They know a good thing when the stumble upon them!

Sadly, in some cultures in Africa, the Middle East and South East Asia, where women are horribly repressed, removal of the clitoris happens regularly to curtail any pleasure and to make women “faithful”. Female Genital Mutilation is a horrific, barbaric crime against humanity that is usually not even preformed in a medical setting, it is often preformed by laypeople with broken shards of glass or knives in some sort of “ritual” that is celebrated. It’s disgusting beyond belief that such things go on.

The clit should be celebrated as a wonderful pleasure center that its only purpose is joy and feeling good. It should be rubbed, stroked, kissed and caressed as much as possible. It has over double the nerve endings the head of the penis has and makes us lose control in the best possible way. So tease that lovebutton!

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