Sweet Dreams

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People usually think of wet dreams as something just for men, but ladies indeed can get wet dreams and even orgasm while sleeping and while waking. It’s actually a wonderful feeling that we’d all like to experience more! It can seem so real and you wake up right while you are having an orgasm. They seem to be more common for men that are not cumming enough during their waking hours, so the body is giving them the release they need without them doing it to themselves.

So if you’re horny and not even masturbating, the body will likely get the job done for you in this nocturnal emission. I’ve wakened up and been having an orgasm without even touching myself and usually squeeze my thighs together as it seems to prolong the feeling a bit and make it more enjoyable. If only every waking could be as enjoyable! Sex and dreams and imagination and fantasy is such a big part of our lives and still such a great mystery to many of us. If masturbation wasn’t thought of as bad by some people, mainly religious ones, people wouldn’t be depriving themselves during waking hours. Some are just of a high sex drive nature and will have wet dreams regardless of how much they are getting in real life, yet of course deprivation leads to more of them.

Sleep and dreams can be wonderful, mysterious things and enjoyable parts of our lives. When we have a fantastic, sexy dream about someone we desire that we may not be having real luck with in real life, we wish we could go back to sleep and get back to all the good parts we want to relive over and over again.

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Once Again It’s National Masturbation Month!

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We all love to rub one out, you wouldn’t be on a naughty site like this that details sexual pleasures if you weren’t a masturbator too! Now we have entered an entire month dedicated to celebrating the simple, free pleasure of masturbation. Our making love to ourselves, the most important person in our lives. It really is sex with someone you love. It’s fantastic cardio vascular exercise, actually lowers the risk of prostate cancer in men, 21 minimum orgasms a month for optimum prostate health!

Keeping the pipes clean so to speak. Even if you’re a guy that only bothers with a 5 minute quickie in the shower, masturbation is something many people enjoy even if they have a regular sexual partner. Many partners do not share the same sex drive, so one of them may be in want much of the time. Yes, they can seek satisfaction outside of the relationship, but many are not comfortable doing that and masturbation is an excellent outlet for ones in such cases. I don’t understand anyone not getting on the masturbation bandwagon. It’s safe, no chance of disease, a mild form of exercise, total stress reliever, it has soooo much going for it!

In 1995, a San Francisco sex toy store started the tradition and it’s been gathering steam with each passing year, now even having masturbation marathons in several cities world wide! Now as much as I love to masturbate, and lord knows I do, I don’t see myself signing up for any public spectacles! I’ll keep my masturbation behind closed doors. To play on the phone is one thing, many are also into cam, but to be in some sort of organized event, nah, I’ll leave that to the exhibitionists, and there’s a lot of them around!

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Underneath Your Clothes

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Lingerie is like wrapping yourself up for your lover in a pretty satin and lace package. A feast for their eyes and making them want you even more since you took the time and the trouble to make yourself up for them. So many different types of lingerie out there, from stockings and garter belts, matching bra and panties, corsets. Many men seem to enjoy having sex with the lingerie on their ladies.

They adore the feel of the silky fabric under their hands, as they slide them all over you, caressing you. Many men enjoy wearing lingerie themselves, they just adore the tactile sensations. I get lots of callers that like to hear about the lingerie I’m wearing and how they’d fuck me in it. It’s always fun to think about a woman wearing something sexy underneath her hum drum clothes, like the librarian wearing something prim and proper and then wearing something terribly racy underneath that would make a whore blush!

You never know what someone has on under their clothes, upskirt pics are popular with guys trying to take pics of what a lady has on underneath her short skirt to drool over. Not too difficult to get a digital camera or a cell phone to quickly take a peek up the skirt and then maybe even post the pics online. There’s a whole thing online about websites that exist for no other reason than to share upskirt pics and post them all over the net. Modern day peeping Tom’s.

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Guided Masturbation-Not Just For Men

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The art of guided masturbation is not just of interest for men, it can be quite a pleasurable sensation for a woman as well. To do as your partner tells you to do, as they are instructing you to stop, start, the pressure with which you are touching yourself. I’ve been having phone sex for years, have had tons of guided masturbation calls for men, with me doing the instructing. When I had a personal partner do it to me, I couldn’t believe it.

It was fantastic and I loved it and wanted more. It has a real effect on me, and I’m assuming it has the similar effect on guys and that’s why they love it so much. I guess it takes a real special sort to enjoy doing it, I like getting it a whole lot more than giving it, oh well, that’s what happens when you’re selfish in the sack! It’s much more fun to take than to give! Some do truly enjoy giving pleasure, it’s the pleasure of the other person that gets them off, so it’s always a perfect match when you get a giving partner and the receiving partner, once in a while you can switch it up for fun, but most people are fairly comfortable in their roles as givers or takers.

To lay back and do as you are told, without question, to be submissive to their instructions, believe me, the payoff of the stronger orgasm awaits you if you find someone that’s halfway adequate at doing it. You will cum harder than if you’re just going at your own pace. Sometimes it’s a wonderful thing to relinquish control and just give in, let them have the say and set the pace. It’s a very good thing.

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Pleasure For Your Nipples

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Many think of nipples as exclusively a womanly thing, but men do indeed have them and some very much enjoy them being stimulated. I do not watch many clients on cam, but a recent one I’ve watched a few times does indeed enjoy stimulating his nipples. It seems odd for a man to find pleasure in that, since it seems more of a female thing, but he does indeed stroke his cock with one hand and play with his nipples with the other.

Rubbing them with his fingers and tweaking them. He said it really enhances his masturbatory pleasure. He asked me the first time I watched him if I found it weird he enjoyed it so much, I said no, I’ve certainly heard of other men deriving pleasure from it many times. Nipples do enchant some men when women play with them as well. I can’t even count the number of guys that have asked me if I’m able to suck my own nipples, I can, but it doesn’t do anything for me pleasure wise. The seem to hope that because you can, you must surly do this all the time, since how could it not be pleasurable?

Many do indeed have very sensitive nipples that bring them great joy, and for those that do, I’m glad for them. Not all of us have that pleasure from them though. Pinching, tweaking, sucking, from ourselves if we can reach, or another doing it for us. I can think of one client of mine that is obsessed with breasts, one of several, and he said he loved to suck on his former girlfriend’s nipples and he knew she wasn’t into it, that he would look up and “see the boredom in her eyes”, I chuckled at his candor, but it just goes to show, what’s a pleasure for one is just a chore for another.

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