One cannot even count when they are a phone sex operator how many men call us up while wearing lingerie. It’s a high percentage. Many times it’s stolen or borrowed garments from the wife or girlfriend or roommate that has absolutely no clue that they are doing this. How they don’t stretch them out, I do not know, but they are very afraid they will get caught, so that’s why they don’t usually buy their own lingerie if they are on a relationship, since they don’t want it found, so they borrow that of their lady and hope no one will discover it.
Now when we are conceived, the default fetus is female, it’s the exposure to hormones that make it male, so some have said by crossdressing of having a desire to return to their female roots, for some is only natural, yet it’s a taboo in most societies for men to dress up and parade around in drag, this is not something most women would find appealing in a partner, hence the secretive nature of ones into this hobby. Some feel like women and say they only feel at home when dressed up like a woman, so it’s a difficult road for them, but it’s a very common situation as any phone girl can tell you how many guys call wearing ladies items when they masturbate.
The silky fabric is one excuse we often hear, yet it’s easy enough to find men’s silk underwear, it’s the fact that it’s for women that gets them going that some are loathe to admit. Some accept that but it’s an odd situation. I don’t think equal numbers of ladies are wearing men’s underwear in return. It’s harmless enough, but still many women would not be able to tolerate this behavior in their partners, so it’s kept a secret most times. Many guys do enjoy being feminized to a degree.
