Not everyone calling a phone sex line is looking for talk to masturbate to. This week a man called very upset that had no one else to talk to. Within two minutes I was crying, he was crying, we were all crying. Earlier that day he’d had his dog put down that was sick and old and it was a very emotional day for him and he was very upset and needed someone to talk to. Some people literally have no one to share their problems with, so they reach out to phone sex operators as a voice of comfort.
I’m glad he got me since I’m a huge animal lover and understand what he was going through, so we talked about his dog fort he call and it was a very sad conversation, but I and I am sure many other operators would be sympathetic to such a situation. Not all are animal lovers of course, but some are for sure, and we are happy to listen to you and help in any way and be that comforting shoulder to cry on, but I cannot guarantee they won’t be crying right along with you, that happens for sure.
Some people are loners by nature and just don’t have anyone to commiserate with. Some men have called when their wives had died and they had been sick for a long time and finally died and they are now alone and have no one to really talk things over with. Grief can be a very lonely and hard thing to get though, not a doubt, and some will reach out to us in their moment of need for basic human companionship.