One of the most obvious of sexual pleasures is taking your time. I cannot for the life of me understand people that feel the need to rush. I guess for many that comes from masturbating in childhood and teenage years and having to rush to finish before they were discovered, and sadly this leap to rush seems to go on through life even though no such fears of getting caught remain.
I always feel bad for premature ejaculators when they call and how they are too lazy to train themselves out of it. There’s definitely men that can last a long time, they appreciate passion and are in no rush, they like to savor their pleasures, they are always higher ranked in my books than the wham, bam, thank you ma’am types, they are just annoying. Unless you’ve got someone beating on your door, what exactly are you rushing for, it’s not a race to see who can cum the fastest. I think I’d like the tantric sex guys that can go for hours, well, that might be TOO long, but you get the idea. No need to rush a good thing.
Build up is a wonderful thing. You will cum harder if it’s been a few days since your last orgasm obviously, you will also have a more enjoyable orgasm if it’s reached slowly and teasing yourself, or having your partner tease you for a good long while before cumming. Enjoy the journey, the destination is never in doubt, but enjoy the ride getting there as well.