The art of guided masturbation is not just of interest for men, it can be quite a pleasurable sensation for a woman as well. To do as your partner tells you to do, as they are instructing you to stop, start, the pressure with which you are touching yourself. I’ve been having phone sex for years, have had tons of guided masturbation calls for men, with me doing the instructing. When I had a personal partner do it to me, I couldn’t believe it.
It was fantastic and I loved it and wanted more. It has a real effect on me, and I’m assuming it has the similar effect on guys and that’s why they love it so much. I guess it takes a real special sort to enjoy doing it, I like getting it a whole lot more than giving it, oh well, that’s what happens when you’re selfish in the sack! It’s much more fun to take than to give! Some do truly enjoy giving pleasure, it’s the pleasure of the other person that gets them off, so it’s always a perfect match when you get a giving partner and the receiving partner, once in a while you can switch it up for fun, but most people are fairly comfortable in their roles as givers or takers.
To lay back and do as you are told, without question, to be submissive to their instructions, believe me, the payoff of the stronger orgasm awaits you if you find someone that’s halfway adequate at doing it. You will cum harder than if you’re just going at your own pace. Sometimes it’s a wonderful thing to relinquish control and just give in, let them have the say and set the pace. It’s a very good thing.
