World of Sexual Pleasures

Pucker Up, Baby!

Posted on February 3, 2014 by Sharon

An unequaled pleasure that usually begins the evening of passionate lovemaking is kissing. So simple, something people don’t mind even if their kids are doing it. So innocent. It used to be “Do you kiss on a first date?”, now it’s do you fuck on a first date…I think we’d be better off if people did stop at the kiss for the first date and let things build, where’s the build up if everything is already laid out on the table at the end of the first date? What’s left to look forward to, gee does she do anal on the second???

It was a simpler time, a more innocent time than we have today, with porn splashed all over the internet for everyone old enough to click a computer keyboard to see. A kiss in and of itself was something to look forward to and savor, not to be rushed over to get to “the good stuff”. It WAS the good stuff, for a while anyway until things got more serious. Some people are just not well practiced at it and don’t understand the true art of what goes into a perfect kiss.

I’ve always noticed some actors always looked so good at it and others just didn’t seem natural at it, makes you wonder if they just had bad teachers at it, or if they’d be bad no matter who they were paired up with. Who’s to say a “perfect kiss” has to be on the mouth anyway? *Blush*, there’s certainly other spots a kiss is most welcome, isn’t there now?

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Let’s Tie That Sucker Up!

Posted on January 27, 2014 by Sharon

As pleasures go, it seems odd to include something that is in fact painful, but to some pain is indeed pleasure. Ones into BDSM and cock and ball torture do love to be in fact hurt and tortured. Many that call are into mild forms of this, say tightly tying up their cock and balls to restrict blood flow to the cock and balls. It gives them harder erections, this is what cock rings do as well. They trap blood to keep the penis engorged longer and harder than it would be otherwise.

Cock rings are the oldest sex toy on earth, ones in ancient times used leather strips and cords to do it. Not all guys are going to have a raging erection like an 18 year old forever, as you get older you need help, and even with help, a 65 yr old, cock ring or not won’t be sporting a woody like a teenager. Sad to say, but that’s the way it is.

I can think of many clients that call with things tied around their bits. Many would leave it tied until just the exact minute of orgasm and then untie it so they would spurt as completely as they could. They say it makes them cum a lot harder to do that, so there’s a much greater release that way. I don’t think women get any benefits to tying up our parts this way, but at least we know why some of the guys do, to intensify it.

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Circle Jerks

Posted on January 20, 2014 by Sharon

A pleasure for some naughty boys when they are younger, and even when older, as there are some groups that meet for these is a circle jerk. A few guys will meet and masturbate together, usually while watching porn. Honestly, if there’s one thing I like about men it’s their upfrontness when it comes to masturbation. None of this lying and denying like most girls. Their “Ya know what, ya I play with my dick!” attitude is refreshing to me.

I can think the whole time I grew up being terrified of getting caught, or having anyone know. I just don’t think guys are as worried about that, it’s just taken for granted that boys will be boys. It’s too bad girls were not as free to be expected to explore the same. I don’t think many slumber parties have circles of masturbating girls, the same way a group of guys might. On various adult sex forums I’m on I’ve seen posting by men looking for other local men to get together and masturbate with. No touching invited, just to do it in the same room.

I can see it would heighten arousal for both, or however many people might be present and participating. The naughtiness, the rubbing sounds, the heavy breathing, all quite arousing for all involved. Even if you’re not touching them or them touching you, just the proximity of them doing the same thing would be very naughty, yet safe. It’s too bad everyone doesn’t feel that comfortable to enjoy themselves and relax in front of another person. It would sure add a whole new level to your friendships!

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Look At Me!

Posted on January 13, 2014 by Sharon

A pleasure for some is a shock for ones on the receiving end, exhibitionism. They love to shock and show off to anyone that might be around. Some do this in the form of showing off their genitals, others like to have sex in public places and have people see them in their intimate moments. Sex on a balcony, in a park, in a car not parked far away, places where others can easily walk by and see what they are doing.

One man told me a fantasy of his where he imagined having sex in a park and a woman was walking her dog, the dog got loose and as she’s looking for the dog, she stumbles upon him and his partner going at it and she stops and begins to masturbate as she’s watching them. Of course they see her and invite her to join them and it becomes a threesome right there in the park as who knows who else might then wander on by and see the three of them.

Sex outdoors seems to be of great interest to the British I have noticed. Many that have mentioned this fantasy in one form or another seem to be British. That’s not to say non British people don’t have fantasies about getting it on outdoors and exhibitionism as well, they certainly do, but more of them seem to be British, not sure what it is about British culture that has this so ingrained in the nations psyche. I have indeed noticed it though!

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What Is In A Name?

Posted on January 6, 2014 by Sharon

I just had a conversation with a nice, older Scottish man and like most UK guys, he refers to pussy as “fanny”, which to north Americans of course means the opposite, ass. So many like particular words used in their sexual conversations, it made me think of the various things guys like to refer things as. I have found black guys almost without exception prefer the word dick to cock, not sure why, but several have pointed this out to me, most white guys prefer cock to dick.

Some guys have even odder names for their male appendages, one British client would only have his cock referred to as his “Willie”, if I slipped I was admonished. One client of mine only wants it called his “pickle”. Some want pee pee, which seems so ridiculous to me, one calls it his “little white worm”, as he has a very small cock. Odd how certain words turn us on above all others and get us going. Others that tend to like the medical type stuff like penis, which sounds so clinical to me. Cocks seem to have more word variations than pussies do.

Pussy, cunt, vagina, coochie, not many more. I guess certain words have powers over us and turn us on more than others and they can have roots to way back in our childhood, when first we heard those words and understood their meaning. The actual proper medical terms are not sexy and do not arouse most people that hear them.