The Sounds Of Sex

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The sounds of sex are many and plentiful, and for some truly into sounds, it’s much hotter than porn. Not everyone is into watching porn and visual stimulation and one can often desensitize themselves and need escalating and more extreme porn to get the same effect. I have chatted with 18 year olds that have told me they are already desensitized, I think that’s just sad. Ones are less apt to feel that way overdosing on sounds.

I find it fascinating one can get wet from sounds alone, no touching, not so much as a picture, but just sounds can get you so horny and amazingly aroused. Some men adore the sound of a wet pussy being rubbed, that smacking, squishy, squelching sound. I can’t even say how many callers over the years have asked to hear such a sound as I cup my hand over the phone and make sounds like the cats eating wet food to simulate what they are imagining is happening on the other end of the phone.

So many guys think we want to hear them stroking their cocks and making that wet noise as their dick slides up and down in their hand. One even used to tap his cock on the phone and make tapping sounds, Morse code for cocks! Odd, he’d drum away by the hour trying to impress me with his hardened cock. I far prefer the heavy breathing and sensual moaning sounds of air escaping the lips and that can get you very turned on for sure. But to some, nothing will quite equal the sound of a wet pussy and all that wetness being rubbed around.

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I’ve Fallen And I Can’t Get Up!

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Something that has happened to many people that they are not exactly forthcoming with is sex related injuries. Many of us are embarrassed to admit to a doctor how we may have come by an injury. When a woman is in the riding on top position, a common injury for a guy can be a sprained penis if it pops out a bit too far and the woman comes down on it, crunch! OUCH! This really does require medical attention, it can create an actual bend in the penis. I don’t know what they do for you, but you need to get that looked at.

Slips in the tub and shower can come about from sex standing up in there too, it’s a slippery place under the best of times, add some vigorous sex to the mix and you’ve got an accident waiting to happen. People getting overly playful in bed can fall off and out of the bed and onto the floor a couple of feet below. Overly vigorous sex can cause micro tears in the vagina, anus and along the penis. Lube is always a good thing and prevents many micro tear situations.

Masturbation accidents happen too, we don’t always have to be with a partner for mishaps to occur. I can personally attest to this one. *Blushes* I was having a personal phone date with someone I was then going to mail panties too wet with my juices. After I came I thought it might be easier to wipe myself with the panties standing rather than laying down and I didn’t turn the light on. With one foot up on the bed, and the other on the floor, I toppled over and fell. I was badly bruised for weeks, and it’s a miracle I didn’t break my wrist or fall on one of the cats!

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Satin And Lace

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A sexual pleasure for many men is seeing their lady all done up in sexy lingerie. Satins, lace, corsets, stockings, it’s all very pretty and can help you look your sexiest for your man. He will love to unwrap you like a present, untying your bows and unhooking your bra, garter belt, and corset. All the good stuff before he gets to the even better stuff that lies beneath.

For centuries, since 3000BC, lingerie in one form or another has been a part of women’s wardrobes. If you think underwire bras today are not a thing of comfort, they are the lap of luxury compared to corsets filled with whale bones that made you stand up so straight you’d be in pain and were responsible for nearly driving some whales to the point of extinction they were hunted so for their bones, it’s hard to believe people wore garments filled with bones and later steel cages to look better under their clothes. I’m too into comfort to bother with that stuff!

The fabrics and designs today are as good as it gets, every color of the rainbow, and in many different types of designs to make you not only look your best under clothes, but appealing to your man in case you just want to briefly wear things in the bedroom for some pre sex ogling and appreciation, that seems about as long as I’d want to wear something for. Many men out there are into panties and stockings, both for their ladies and for themselves, the tactile sensations that feel so good are indeed a turn on for them as well.

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By the Glow Of Candlelight

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A pleasure for many is the romantic atmosphere itself. What says romance more than a lovely room, that smells beautiful and is lit by the light of several candles? Candles today are more than just for looks as well, many candles melt into a massage oil for couples to enjoy and indulge in. They are low heat burning candles and melt into a wonderful oil that can be massaged into your lover before embarking on a wonderful and romantic filled evening of passionate lovemaking.

They are beautiful to look at, often are infused with wonderful and fruity scents to please the nose and nothing gives the warm, welcoming glow that candles do. A woman, and man too for that matter, look best by the forgiving glow of candlelight. Not everyone has a beautiful, roaring fireplace, but anyone can bring the warmth of candles into their bedroom to help set the mood, no matter their budget. You don’t need to always get expensive, fancy candles, the dollar store even has a fine selection of them to lend a lovely warm glow to your bedroom.

Surprise your lover by having a bedroom all set and lit with them when they come home from a hard day at the office, have the bathroom filled with tiny votive candles as well, draw a sensual bubble bath for them, and maybe crawl in and join them…Mmmmmm, always nice to get nice and clean before you plan on getting dirty together! Get as many as you can, a few dozen in various sizes and see what sort of evening of romance you can create.

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The Excitement Of A New Lover

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The excitement of a new lover is something many of us look forward to with great anticipation. The build up, the intensity, the newness of it all. The anticipation is frequently greater than the actual event sad to say, and to some, once that new feeling is over, they are conquered and done. One client I have goes on and on about new girls, he sees escorts regularly and usually not twice. Once they have been had, the grass is always greener in the next pasture over.

And wouldn’t you know, I’m the “great love of his life”. And of course he can’t ever have me. Good thing, since I’ve no doubt if he did, I’d never get another die eoff of him, once I’d have been sampled, I’d lose all appeal. So have to keep up the from afar thing going. He only lives less than a couple of hours away and I don’t think he’s a lunatic or anything, but if he ever got that foot in the door, he’d be lost to me forever as a client and all money would stop. He goes on about new escorts as if he’s a kid in a candy store. “Look at this one! Oh, I want that one!” the insatiable need for something new and different is the downfall of some men. I wonder what goes on in his wife’s head.

Can an actual event ever live up to our anticipation of it? Sometimes the first time can be the best time, other times, it gets better as it goes along and you discover more about the person and know what each other likes more and more. In those cases, the first time is just a jumping off point to bigger and better and more enjoyable experiences with that person.

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