Toys For Men

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Many times when we hear of sex toys, we automatically think of vibrators for women. Women are the primary buyers of sex toys after all. However there are more and more sex toys out there just for men. Lots of men greatly enjoy prostate stimulation and there are countless varieties out there of butt plugs, vibrating and not and of various sizes. There are tons of masturbators out there like Fleshlights and even full sized life like love dolls. Some are so real looking, you’d give them a second glance.

Many have the price tags to go with them, with top of the line life sized love dolls that are custom ordered and styled at over $10,000 and above. I’d be pretty creeped out if I saw any guy of mine with one of them, but there is obviously a market for them, someone is buying them even at that great price. Many online sex shops often have over 5000 products, the numbers of things out there for men and women is staggering, you often wonder who comes up with these items. There is certainly something out there for every taste and proclivity.

A number of callers have called using Fleshlights and a few with pocket pussies and they seem to greatly enjoy them, I guess if they don’t have a real pussy at their disposal, a Fleshlight even at around $100 is cheaper than an average date, so they figure the Fleshlight is a better investment that will last more than 4 hours the average date of dinner and a movie would, so even though toys can be pricy, still cheaper in many cases than a date. The 10K love doll not so much, so that’s for the real fans and or ones that can’t get a real girl, but you could get an escort a number of times, I’d think that better than a doll.

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Bath Time Fun

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What could be more relaxing than a nice, long soak in a hot, soapy bubble bath? Well masturbating in the bubble bath, of course! I have one client that recently came back after  a long time, as guys tend to do, and I always called him “Bathtub Dan”, since he used to call me frequently from the bathtub and I could hear the water as he splashed around in there.

I recall once he was thrilled, since I do leave my phones on pretty much all the time, one sad thing that can happen is once in a while you do get caught in the shower, thank god never have I gotten caught for a long call while in there, but it does happen, and I keep a phone on the side of the sink, so I just turn off the water and answer the phone, do the call and then resume my shower. Well one time I was covered in soap and the phone rang and it was Bathtub Dan. I said to him for most people I wouldn’t tell them they’d caught me in the shower, but I knew he’d love it, so I turned the water back on so he could hear it was indeed me in the shower.

He loved it and said how much he wished he was here to help me wash off! Silly boys. One time I was in the shower and nearly finished rinsing off, and this call was going a bit longer than I cared to be covered in soap and water for and I lightly turned the water back on at 1/3 power and the caller asked if it was raining and was the window open! It was so funny! I turned it back off and waited til he was finished to rinse off, but boy bath and shower time can be entertaining places to masturbate, and not great places to get calls from in…..

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You’re Cutting Off My Pleasure Protector!

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It’s not often I change my mind about something, but sometimes after doing enough research, I do. One thing I have changed my mind on is circumcision. Not something I will ever need to think about, as I won’t be having any kids myself, but after talking to men and researching this topic, I think it’s best to leave things alone as nature intended.

Ones that grew up already circumcised know no difference obviously. When I read facts about adult males that were circumcised for various reasons and the reports of their satisfaction with their sensations months later, almost all of them reported lessened pleasures, by up to 70%, that’s a lot. And when you think of cultures where this is greatly pushed, like Jewish and Middle Eastern countries, they are conservative to say the least, and it seems them promoting this procedure is meant to lessen physical enjoyments, that sex should only be for procreation, and not pleasure, so it makes sense they would be promoting anything that would make sex for the sake of pleasure less enjoyable.

Yes, circumcised ones look better, no doubt of that, and they do have less disease and cause less infections for their partners when they are circumcised, that is a fact, most simply don’t wash thoroughly enough to keep this under control. Many people don’t even bother to wash their hands properly after using the bathroom, you expect most guys to give their junk a good scrubbing every day? Nope. But if you think about it, if nature had it there, there’s a reason, and maybe you shouldn’t go lopping things off without a good reason to. It does make sense though that the cock head would be more sensitive if usually covered than if exposed all the time, so more pleasure would result. Perhaps nature does know best.

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Gay Porn Is Hot!

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Ok,  gotta admit it, I think gay porn is hot. I know a lot of callers not only watch it, but they dream of sucking cock as well. That was one of the first things that struck me when I became an operator, nearly half of all callers wanted to suck cock or had an experience or two years ago and it had long lasting effects on them and provided masturbation material for decades.

I recall a free weekend on the gay porn channel years ago and was very turned on by watching the guys suck each other off, kiss and rub their cocks together and give each other hand jobs, I was truly aroused, dripping wet and masturbated to it and watched several of the movies. Tons of guys have same sex curiosities, and in the homophobic society we live in it’s amazing to me, since I believe most of us have bisexual tendencies. Not all, but many, just depends on the person and how far they are willing to go with someone of the same sex. I have never done anything with another woman, but perhaps that’s just because I have never had the chance, you never know until you’re in a given situation how you will react to it, no matter how much you may speculate.

I always think of guys especially that are such staunch homophobes, “Me thinks the lady doth protest too much”. Studies have even shown men who had penile arousal impulses measured in labs, the ones that were the most anti-gay had the strong reactions to being shown same sex porn. Religion has so fucked people up as to what they think is acceptable, it’s sad that you can’t just let people live and let live. If they are not harming anyone or involving minors, get the fuck over it and mind your own business.

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Cam Sex

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A pleasure for many is web cam sex. Not everyone is satisfied with just phone sex. Some guys are so visually oriented, they need to see as well as hear and web cam sex will be the ticket to get them off and make their masturbation ever so much more exciting. Some are happy with using cam sites and having a professional masturbate for them, others want a girl to really be enjoying it and masturbating with them, which of course is much harder to find to get a truly mutual exchange like that.

I’ve known more than a handful of guys that have been blackmailed by girls they found for free in chat rooms. A professional cam girl will not be blackmailing her clients. They may not be having a genuine orgasm as they perform, but they will do their best to look convincing in any case and put on a good show, and in all honesty a horny man may be so concentrating on the images in front of him, he may not be too worried about the girl really getting off with him and it being a mutual experience. I wonder how many guys are worried about a hooker they hire having an actual orgasm? I don’t know, maybe they understand more than phone sex and cam sex customers that a hooker is there for their enjoyment and they are not worried about making the professional cum.

Even if not horny, and arousing sight can turn a man horny very quickly, if they are already aroused when they call for phone or cam, I wouldn’t think it would take much to get them off, but I’m not a cam girl, so I can’t say for sure as I have zero experience with that, phone I know, cam not at all. I do get asked daily though if I’d cam and the answer is always no, but I know from getting asked so much how many men wish to watch.

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