One Night Stand

Posted on November 21, 2011 by Sharon

Some people are very comfortable having a one night stand. If ones can totally separate sex from emotions, well, good for them. Most men can, some women can.

Sex for the sake of sheer pleasure used to just be the domain of man. Now women are realizing they can enjoy an evening of “play” without it leading to a relationship. If this is what both people want, then have at it. The one night stand is alive and well in this day and age. No worries of it disappearing.

There was a very funny scene in an episode of Sex And the City in which the lead character has sex with a man, or starts to, he goes down on her and is then expecting the same in return. After she gets off, she says she’s out of time and has to go back to work, leaving him hanging. She had sex like a man. It’s funny seeing the tables turned.

Most men are not looked down on for having a one night stand, but many women would be, so they usually keep quiet about it and keep it to themselves. No point broadcasting your affairs to the public at large.

I don’t understand the appeal of them, but to many they meet their needs just fine. I am of the mindset, if something is pleasurable, why would you not want to repeat it over and over again? I can’t grasp a one time and never see the other person again situation. But as long as both parties agree it is what it is, then do as you will.

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Tantric Sex

Posted on November 14, 2011 by Sharon

 

Tantric sex has been described by many as the ultimate sexual experience. A whole body orgasm of spiritual measurement.

Tantra proclaims that sex is downright sacred, even outside of marriage, which most societies discourage. In most societies and cultures, it is considered the ideal to save sex for a committed, legally binding relationship. Seems beyond quaint in today’s world…

I recently read online about a yoga teacher in NYC that is having students that are experiencing these full body orgasms with no genital touching whatsoever. That a certain way of breathing and getting extra circulation to the pelvic area can produce these in some people, and it can prove a bit embarrassing to be experiencing an orgasm in a room full of people with little control over it.

The singer Sting is a follower of tantric sex and claims to be able to have sex for hours on end. Tantra talks about harnessing the sexual energy and it raising you to a higher level spiritually. Some followers of tantra not only proclaim full body orgasms, but orgasm lasting for absolute hours. I can’t imagine more than the standard 10 seconds long one. Imagine cumming so hard you went into an altered state of consciousness….I have myself fainted a couple of times, but they aren’t talking fainting here.

Tantra, yoga, and Buddhism all go hand in hand. They have all been around for thousands of years. First practiced in the Far East, and in the 60’s becoming more popular in the West. We could all use some full body orgasms now, couldn’t we……….

 

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The Little Blue Pill

Posted on November 7, 2011 by Sharon

The pleasures of sex have been able to be extended in men’s life due to the miracle pill Viagra. It has been described as the most profitable pill ever made. Claiming profits of over a billion dollars a year.

In 1991, Pfizer was creating a new drug for angina, and it seemed to hold little promise for that purpose after drug trials, yet a side effect the drug exhibited was unexpected erections. All of a sudden the first drug for erectile dysfunction was born. It was approved and released in 1998.

Men were all of a sudden given a new sexual lease on life that had been unable to perform due to various medical conditions. It works fairly simply, it works to open up the blood vessels and increases blood flow to the penis and enables erections.

Many women were not happy with the invention of the drug, as many had husbands that they didn’t have to bother servicing anymore and they were happy to have “closed up shop” so to speak, and all of a sudden they were presented with husbands with cocks that were operational again and the men needed tending. So the invention of Viagra wasn’t welcomed by all.

For many couples though, it gave them back a part of their relationship that had disappeared. The little diamond shaped blue pill has been welcomed by so many, brought incredible profits and renewed nearly dead sex lives. Life will never be the same again…….The miracles of pharmaceuticals at work.

 

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Thar She Blows!

Posted on October 30, 2011 by Sharon

Many have called female ejaculation a myth. Some think when they “squirt” that they are having an incident of urinary incontinence. Any woman that has the ability to have an orgasm that way will tell you she is not peeing.

Many call female ejaculation a G spot orgasm, since they can often be induced by manipulating the G spot by either a toy specifically designed to stimulate the G spot, or by hand, with 2 fingers inserted into the vagina and making the “come hither” motion with them.

Men talking about milking the prostate, the G spot has been said to be the female equivalent of that type of orgasm.

It can be difficult for a woman to induce one of these orgasms herself unless she has the proper toy, it is usually induced by another person that in knowledgeable in the technique used for bringing them on.

The gush of fluid can be immense, upwards of 2 cups of fluid, so you’d best contain these orgasms to the shower or you’d better have a few very absorbent beach towels down on your bed to be ready for the floodgates.

It’s supposed to be a much more intense orgasm than the “regular” kind. For women that squirt, they want no other type of orgasm, once they can achieve it, nothing less will apparently do.

I can’t tell you how many guys I chat with that one of the first questions they ask is, “Can you squirt?” So it’s had an effect on them, and once they have been with a girl that can, they like it and want other girls that can do it as well.

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Kiss My Ass! Lick My Ass You Dirty Bastard……..

Posted on October 23, 2011 by Sharon

The following topic may make some wretch, and others drool…..you can’t please everyone. It’s a sexual pleasure to some, an erotic humiliation to others, depending on the people involved.

And the sexual pleasure for some and the unthinkable act for others is, *drumroll please*…..Rimming. AKA analingus. The kissing, licking and tongue fucking of the anus. Many an ass has been waxed with the hopes of becoming more appealing to the tongue of their lover.

Granted it is a very sensitive area, and a woman that might be afraid to try anal sex because it might be too forceful and uncomfortable might be more willing to have her nether regions explored by a warm, wet, soft, probing tongue. No pain, no discomfort, and for some willing to try such a thing, apparently mind blowing pleasure.

One guy I chat with adores it and gets regular waxings to make himself more appealing in the ass area. It was the first thing that came to his mind when I mentioned sexual pleasures.

Most people do indulge in oral sex of course, but the more adventuresome go further back shall we say and tease, nibble and lick their lovers ass with their eager, exploring tongues.

It is a health risk for the giver, many diseases can be transmitted this way, and even if the one receiving is healthy, the consumption of undercooked meats can make parasites a concern. The people involved have to weigh the risks before indulging in such an activity.

So the next time you tell someone you’re pissed off at to “kiss my ass”, know this-they just might like it!

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