World of Sexual Pleasures

Blindfolded

Posted on December 26, 2011 by Sharon

A sexual pleasure for many would be the pleasure of the unknown, and that is accomplished with a blindfold. Not seeing what is coming right at you can be exciting when it is of the erotic variety.

One of my favorite sexy movies is “9 1/2 Weeks”, with Mickey Rourke and Kim Basinger has a scene involving a blindfold where he traces an ice cube over her body.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nFYy4EcBFns

The excitement of instilling that kind of trust in another person and then experiencing what they have in store for us can be a very arousing event. It’s one thing to allow someone to tie you up, but to have them also cover your eyes and blindfold you is an extra level of trust involved. It heightens the experience, makes it even more intimate.

It’s not always women that are the ones being blindfolded either. It is just as fun to tie a guy up and tease them as the other way around. Many men love a woman that can be a switch or even be the dominant partner in bed. They love to be restrained and teased as much as any woman, and a blindfold can certainly bring that sensation to a different level.

I had a boyfriend years ago that was into domination and submission and he loved to have me tied up and blindfolded, and one night asked to switch places with me, and although it was different to be in the opposite role than I was used to, I found I quite enjoyed it and having that kind of fun once in a while was something we both enjoyed.

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The First Cut Is The Deepest

Posted on December 19, 2011 by Sharon

For many uncircumcised males, they feel the foreskin is a very important part of their pleasure and they cannot imagine not having it. Circumcision has been around for thousands of years, and never has there been such a debate about it as now. Many consider it downright child abuse to have it done. There is no medical need to have it performed, but in some religions it is routinely done, and I’m sure most women would agree they prefer “cut” males, since by most peoples judgments, it looks better than to be “uncut”.

I spoke to a phone partner of mine, and he was not cut, and I said he should, “get it fixed”. Oh boy, he did not like the idea at all. He felt he worked perfectly fine as nature made him and didn’t want or see the need to ever get such a procedure done. Some women prefer the way a natural penis that is not cut feels, since there’s a gliding motion with a natural one that just isn’t there with a cut version. For many, they simply feel it is cleaner and looks better, simple as that. Most men in American porn movies are cut, and that’s what most are used to seeing as a result.

The foreskin does mainly cover and protect the head of the penis, so I can well imagine it does make it more sensitive that if the head was exposed bare all the time. The mere fact that it’s protected and not rubbing against fabric all day will offer a layer of protection for sensitivity.

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Nylon Mania

Posted on December 12, 2011 by Sharon

One of the sexual pleasures many men are secretly indulging in I have found to be is pantyhose. You may think, oh sure, men love pantyhose and stockings and garter belts on women, and many of course do, but I am talking about men who simply adore the feeling of nylons on themselves. Some pull their cocks out to masturbate, others love to reach their hand inside the pantyhose and stroke their dicks that way.

They will put a pair on to masturbate in, one even told me a disgusting story about how he put on a pair of pantyhose and “went to the bathroom” in them. He wanted to feel it contained within the nylon and still against his skin. The things I hear in the course of a day…….

But many are indeed enjoying pantyhose sex, where they tear a hole not only in the pantyhose of the woman they are fucking and fuck her that way, but they will tear a hole and put their cock through it and fuck them as they too have a pair on. There’s something about the tactile sensation that drives them wild that they like against their skin.

Some have even masturbated with stockings and wrapped the stockings around their dicks and pulled and tugged as it was encasing their cock in the nylons. They have a pleasure found with pantyhose and stockings that no other fabric can compare to for them.

The running of their hands up and down the legs of a sexy woman wearing stockings is a thrill for sure, but they are getting their own thrills from wearing their very own pantyhose in secret in their homes, or out and about under their clothes.

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Mirror, Mirror, On The Wall…..

Posted on December 5, 2011 by Sharon

Sex with mirrors can be a very erotic experience. Even masturbation in front of mirrors can be very sexually exciting. Both with hand mirrors for up close examination, and not up close ones, like full length ones on closet doors, dressers or bathroom ones that are shower doors, for further away views.

Some types of beds are designed with over the bed mirrors for above views. It can be very arousing seeing ourselves be sexual and seeing ourselves and our partners at angles we cannot otherwise observe.

Go for soft, romantic lighting, preferably candlelight for the most flattering look. No point turning yourself and your partner off in harsh, glaring light! Go for soft, go for dramatic, create your own sexy atmosphere. Nothing is more flattering than firelight or candlelight as the lighting.

Imagine seeing each other move in the mirror, or just yourself if you’re masturbating with the aid of a mirror. Some guys like to shoot their cum onto the mirror.

It gives us a third person perspective to view ourselves in this manner. Men are so very visual, this is very appealing to many men to watch themselves fuck their partners and go back and forth from looking at their actual partner and the partners reflection.

Ones into mirror sex can also be into taping themselves and watching themselves that way for yet a different perspective. It’s actually a good thing, since ones wouldn’t want to observe themselves unless they had a positive body image, which so many of us are lacking these days.

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Yummy, Yummy, Yummy, I’ve Got Cum In My Tummy…

Posted on November 28, 2011 by Sharon

A sexual pleasure many men enjoy is licking their own cum. I don’t understand why ones would want to do this, but many do. I think it’s normal to taste it once or twice, but some are full fledged cum guzzlers that love to lick up their own jizz everytime they blow a load.

Some are not only into their own cum, but other guys as well, and love licking another guys cum out of their woman’s pussy. Many tell me they have an intense desire to lick it, but as soon as they cum it passes. I also have the ones that want every precious drop of their homemade liquid gold.

Some will masturbate before a shower, cum on their belly and chest and smear it all over themselves like some precious lotion. They feel their cum is indeed some precious commodity that must not be wasted. One was certain until I told him otherwise, that they only had a finite amount, and therefore he shouldn’t masturbate so much, as he was losing his precious seed and it was foolish to waste it this way alone when he was making his future chances of becoming a father slimmer with every passing orgasm. I can’t believe people are so uneducated about their own bodies to hold such a notion!

The cum lickers look forward to their masturbation sessions so that they can clean themselves up after each and every one with their own tongues. One always came into a condom and wanted me to instruct him to drink it, but he never could make himself do it.