One of the slang terms for male masturbation is spanking the monkey. Something most guys learn at an early age. It feels good to masturbate, not a doubt about it, and continue to do it the rest of their lives, even if they have a sexual partner. Most couples are not matched with equal libidos, most women don’t want sex as much as men, though even if a woman does have a good libido, there can be times when she doesn’t feel up to it, like during her period. Some women don’t mind it, some men don’t want them then, or they could have bad cramps and just not feel up to it even if they don’t mind it then.
Masturbation is always there for a guy during those times when his partner is unavailable sexually to him. Many marriages have no sex at all and the women refuse to have sex and the men are complacent, won’t leave, so their own hand is their option for sex. It’s so pathetic all the things we phone girls hear about the sexless relationships and the men that won’t leave. So many masochists out there.
Jerking off, spanking the monkey, these are just everyday things for a lot of men from even before their teens until they die. It usually lessens with age, but many men will masturbate their entire lives and it’s a same that there’s any embarrassment or shame tied to such a normal act at all, yet there is. Religion of course discourages sex for anything but procreative purposes and masturbation is purely for pleasure, yet it’s a healthful activity and won’t get anyone pregnant or give anyone a disease, yet is vilified. Masturbate, it’s good for you!
