The Fragrance Of Love

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Who doesn’t want to smell good? Yet so many people don’t, soap and water are cheap, there’s no excuse to smell bad in this day and age. People should all be showering or having a bath every day. Colognes and perfumes originally were designed to cover up the unwashed body smells, seems hard to believe, but it’s true. Perfume has been created for over 4000 years, so it has a lengthy history.

Perfume is a popular gift for a man to give his lady, but it’s a difficult gift to give someone unless you know what type they like, just because you like a scent does not mean they will like the same one for themselves. We all want to smell good for our lovers, and often a scent of someone will be a reminder of them for the rest of our lives. How many times have we caught whiff of a particular scent and instantly been reminded of someone or a place from our past? It’s been said scent holds a memory like nothing else.

Someone can smell fantastic and we not even be attracted to them, but the scent makes them instantly appealing. Some fragrances even have added pheromones that are sex attractants. We cannot smell them in and of themselves, but they are an odorless compound that we are attracted to that are added to some perfumes in the hopes of attracting someone of the opposite sex. People will always try and do things to attract sexual partners, and fragrance is certainly right up there.

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Let’s All Have A Drink

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One of the things about drinking, it can make you feel hornier, yet sad thing is, it makes you less able to actually perform. Double edged sword there. The pleasure of having sex while intoxicated if you can indeed cum, can be very nice indeed. Some callers dial you up drunk and then can’t cum. The old whiskey dick comes into play. Alcohol relaxes you and is a depressant, so it makes things not work as well as they do if you are not intoxicated. I used to think it was just men affected by this, but learned it does affect women as well.

I had a bottle of wine and found it was indeed harder to cum after it, even though it was low alcohol wine with half the amount of alcohol in it, it wasn’t enough to make me even feel intoxicated, but had enough of an effect on my system that it was indeed a challenge to cum, yet you feel pretty nice with a slight buzz for sure.

Some drunks get mean, others just loud and laugh a lot, they are much more fun! I always like getting a caller on the line that has had too much to drink, as they are always going to last longer since it’s harder to cum, if they even can at all. Some just can’t no matter how hard they work away at it, it’s sad since they are so horny yet literally cannot cum no matter how great the efforts on their behalf are.

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Gimme Gimme More…

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Tis better to give than receive…Lots of people are givers in the bedroom. There’s also ones that are selfish and only out for themselves. I guess a giver partner and a selfish partner pair would do well together, one is content to do a lot of giving, the other is perfectly happy to sit back and get all the attention.

None of us wants to think of or describe ourselves as selfish, but some are big enough to admit it-we prefer to get than give. Me Me Me. I will always recall with surprise yet couldn’t really deny it when a guy said to me once, “You’re very much about you.” Well…….I can’t exactly say there wasn’t truth to that. People’s life experiences do color the way they are in bed as well. If you have been an only child and had lots of time to yourself and were used to things being centered around you, does it really come as a shock that you also feel that way in the bedroom? Kinda makes sense really, and we have to make a concerted effort to not always be the focus of attention.

See a submissive partner would never dare say such a thing, they’d just be content to keep on giving and be grateful they were accepted to come along for the ride. I have had guys say and truly mean that the pleasure in it for them is giving me pleasure, I love that attitude, what can I say, it’s a selfish persons ideal response. Two selfish people will never do well together, two givers may do OK, but will always be vying for who is the most selfless giver of the two. I admit it. I am selfish, do I get points for honesty at least? Now, make me cum. If you do as well OK, but if not, as long as I do, that’s what matters, right?

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Anal Pleasures

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Pleasure for many in sex involves the anus. Analingus is licking the anus and inserting your tongue inside. Not for the squeamish or everyone for sure. But it’s not just ass licking going on here, asses get lost of attention these days, with over 15% of people claiming to have gotten into anal play of some kind. Anal toys are very popular. I cannot even count the number of guys that call that are into dildos for use on themselves, many using girlfriends toys they don’t even know their boyfriends are using in secret.

I know many callers like to talk about licking ass and having me use a strap on on them, all sorts of anal toys are used, beads that are inserted and then slowly pulled out one by one on a long string, and the prostate massagers in particular are in demand. They go inside and the users rock back and forth while using them, and the tip rubs against their prostate. Many also have built in vibrators. The prostate is to men what the G spot is to women. A pleasure powerhouse that creates explosive orgasms, yet undiscovered by many.

Many women discover the pleasures of analingus during a misplaced tongue during a round of oral sex. Many are concerned about the hygiene of the act and worried about contact with fecal matter, which is a real fear. If you are determined to try analingus, it’s advised you have an enema beforehand and a hot, soapy shower to make sure everything is as clean as it can be inside and out. It is a risky activity, even if everyone involved is disease free, there’s always bacteria from the intestines to be worried about. Dental dams can be used if you don’t wish skin to skin contact, but ones determined will go forth in most cases, risks be damned.

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Tight Is Right

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How are you doing “down there” for tightness ladies? Many times as we get older, after having given birth vaginally especially, things are just not the same. You can question if your man is as happy with the way you feel, if much has changed. There are things you can do. Vaginal rejuvenation surgery has become increasingly popular. Kegal exercises are also used by many women, but do require dedication to do them.

You can also get something that is recommended by Dr.’s and gynocologist’s to help and that’s Ben Wa balls. There are many kinds of eggs and balls out there, once inserted your muscles contract around them to keep them in place, thus creating tightness and making things better. After a few weeks or months or using them regularly, things will improve. They come in different sizes and are weighted. Some varieties have strings connecting the balls, others are loose and free floating.

Just think of how much your guy will appreciate your newly tightened pussy the next time you two make love if you’ve been using balls like this for a few weeks. A tight pussy will have him begging for more. Women have been struggling with wanting more tightness since the dawn of time, and tightening toys and devices have been around for hundreds of years. These are safer than surgery, but of course won’t yield the dramatic results as quickly, but if you’d like to try and get things back to how they used to be, these Ben Wa balls can certainly be a good start to trying.

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